Kevin Kasir I Gay Life Coach

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If you zoom deep into my teeth and eyebrows you’ll see a strange graininess in the picture. Does this mean a ghost was in the shot?

It’s always fun to life coach at a gay bar 🏳️‍🌈 Hopefully these guys found love in themselves and others at this gay matchmaker event 😄

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If you zoom deep into my teeth and eyebrow you’ll see a strange graininess in the picture. Does this mean a ghost was in the shot?

It’s always fun to life coach at a gay bar 🏳️‍🌈 Hopefully these guys found love in themselves and others at this gay matchmaker event 😄

Message me “I’m Ready” to start Gay and Confident 1-on-1 Life Coaching 🏳️‍🌈

Some in-person life coaching **sunday before the holiday. Next up, life coaching at a gay bar. Stay tuned 😄

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How do you express yourself in ways that straight guys don’t? Whether it’s the way I walk, talk, or dress, there are plenty of things I do openly now that I tried to suppress before I was out of the closet. It must be tiring to have to fit into a rigid box of being a straight man. I wished for that when I was younger, but I’m so glad now that I’m gay asf.

Straight guys get criticized for playing female artists, female video game characters, and even having female friends. What a sad life. I’m gonna keep playing Princess Peach and win every 👏🏼 single 👏🏼time 👏🏼

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When I get a backyard I’ll get a dog of my own. Until then, I’ll keep taking pictures with yours 🐺

Why does saying “I love myself” sound so strange? The more you say it, the more normal it feels. Do you agree?

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There’s so much to be thankful for

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Are you under 40 and have trouble “getting it up” or “finishing off?” Have to use your hand even with a hot guy? Do you think this happened to guys before online videos were a thing?

Even if you know many guys who have the same problems, it does not mean this is normal. These videos can cause damage to our brain reward pathways, and using them can even cause physical damage and desensitization as well. Good news: it’s reversible! There are many reasons to cut down, but if your biggest motivation is the external validation of being a “good lay” then start with that! That’s what started me off 3 years ago, and since then I’ve focused so much more on the other benefits such as time and self-esteem regardless of being in the bedroom.

I used to have problems getting it up and finishing off, but for years now no amount of nerves or self-doubt can get in the way of my body doing what it’s supposed to do 💦 Hooking up has never been something I truly cared about, and I’ve stopped trying to force myself into that box. There are plenty of ways I’m happy to fit the gay stereotype, and there are plenty of ways I don’t resonate with as well. You may really enjoy hooking up, or you might feel similarly to me and only do it to “fit in.” Either way, cutting out these videos will help you out.

Next time you’re feeling the urge, try another piece of advice I believe in wholeheartedly: Do the deed with yourself in the mirror! I can’t think of a more literal form of self-love!

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Do you feel Hot one week, but Not the next? Realistically our bodies don’t change that much in a week whether it’s from eating junk food or skipping some gym days. The pattern of your life will show, and one week will not change that pattern. If it was that easy then imagine the opposite: people changing their eating and exercise habits 1 week before summer and then suddenly having the body of a God!

On that note, I feel like I haven’t been eating or exercising as well as I used to. Does it show: Barely. I don’t think people even notice, and most of the time I don’t either. Do I feel like I’m at my peak: No. But that’s just a feeling. What is my peak anyway? If I worked out and ate well for even 1 day that feeling would be replaced with a feeling of accomplishment and growth. How many different feelings do you have in a day? I feel thousands of things each day. I’m not basing my self-esteem on 1 of them.

It’s funny how our feelings have such an impact on our perspective. That’s why it’s great to get other perspectives! I know lots of guys who feel hot one week then not the next, and I can’t find a difference in them even if I tried! Neither can all the people walking by and looking in admiration, so good thing I’m there to tell my friends “that guy totally checked you out😏” How many guys out there would do anything to have the body that you scrutinize in the mirror? How much would yourself 10 years ago wish for the body you put in the work to have now?

Lighting plays a bigger part than we think and here’s a great example to show it. If I only saw the picture on the left, I would think my workout progress for the past year has gotten me nothing, and yes I’m flexing! If you look vastly different one day compared to the next, see how you look under different lighting because that might be the culprit.

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May I Devour You? 🤤🐺

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