09/03/2026
There is a difference between hearing enough to formulate a response and listening long enough to understand another person’s perspective.
That difference matters.
Especially when the conversation is difficult.
Empathetic listening asks us to temporarily loosen our grip on our own interpretation and become genuinely curious about someone else’s.
Not necessarily to agree.
Not to surrender conviction.
But to understand what experiences, fears, hopes, and values may be shaping what we’re hearing.
Imagine what could change…in a workplace, neighborhood, family, or community
if understanding became as valued as being understood.
A Better Question:
When someone disagrees with you, are you listening to understand their perspective or listening for your opportunity to respond?
Put it in the comments below.
