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I think we can learn a lot about someone by becoming curious about what existed before the thing we know them for.Mike N...
09/18/2026

I think we can learn a lot about someone by becoming curious about what existed before the thing we know them for.

Mike North, PhD is a scientist, an inventor, an engineer, an artist...I could not decide what order to put those in because they all seem to carry the same weight. Mike is one of the people behind Shiftwave, the autonomic nervous system technology I started using almost 3 years ago. He thinks deeply about physiology, technology and what the human nervous system may be capable of.

I wanted to know more about his journey...

The little boy who wandered into the woods to build things.
A man shaped by the loss of a soul brother.
A man who found people he trusted enough to learn from.
And the person who says he has changed so much that an earlier version of himself would be barely recognizable.

Several times during our conversation, Mike stopped because he had never really thought about what I was asking. And I love those moments....you have the privilege of watching someone discover something about their own story while they are telling it.

And Mike’s story is one I think you will want to hear.

Becoming the Person Who Can Create Such a Thing

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A regulated nervous system is not a nervous system that is calm all the time. That is not realistic. And as a clinician,...
07/16/2026

A regulated nervous system is not a nervous system that is calm all the time. That is not realistic. And as a clinician, it is not the goal.

A healthy nervous system can activate when needed, respond to stress, mobilize energy, protect boundaries, focus under pressure, and then return. The ability to return matters!

We are often not struggling because we get activated, we are struggling because our bodies do not know how to come back down.

For me, regulation is not constant calm. It is flexibility and capacity of my nervous system.

It is not all in your head. It is in your nervous system...and your nervous system may be trying to protect you with out...
07/08/2026

It is not all in your head. It is in your nervous system...and your nervous system may be trying to protect you with outdated information.

Today, as we celebrate freedom, I keep thinking about how freedom is not only something we experience externally. It is ...
07/04/2026

Today, as we celebrate freedom, I keep thinking about how freedom is not only something we experience externally. It is also something we may or may not experience inside the body...the freedom to rest without guilt, to speak without bracing, to be still without fear, to feel joy without waiting for something to go wrong, to set a boundary without collapse, to recover after stress, and the freedom to live from choice instead of survival.

Many of us are outwardly free, but inwardly our nervous systems are still organized around protection...still scanning, anticipating, holding, preparing.

It is often our body doing what it learned to do in order to survive.

So today, I am grateful for the freedoms we can name and celebrate.

And I am also thinking about the quieter forms of freedom many people are still longing for...freedom to feel safe in our own body, to come back to ourselves, to live with more breath, more presence, more dignity, and more choice.

Those kinds of freedom matter too. Happy 4th of July.

People often comment that my office doesn't look like a typical therapy office.Every piece in this space was chosen beca...
06/29/2026

People often comment that my office doesn't look like a typical therapy office.

Every piece in this space was chosen because it reminds me of something I never want to forget.

Not just as a therapist...but as a human being.

The trees remind me that healing grows from the inside out.

One of my favorite sculptures is of a mother tree leaning toward her child tree. It reminds me that healing doesn't happen in isolation. We are shaped in relationship, wounded in relationship, and so often, healed in relationship. Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is simply move toward one another.

The neurons remind me that our brains and nervous systems are capable of changing throughout our lives.

White Buffalo Calf Woman reminds me to approach this work with humility, reverence, compassion, and respect for wisdom that exists beyond what any of us can fully explain.

The bear looking at the bubble with the bee inside reminds me to stay curious. To look closely and to wonder before I assume. To remember that what appears small may be carrying something important.

The otter reminds me that healing isn't only about processing pain. It's also about recovering curiosity, joy, and play.

The Buddha reminds me that presence often heals more deeply than answers.

The artwork of the child standing in front of the polar bear reminds me that most people are carrying far more strength than they know. My role is rarely to give people something they don't have. More often, it's to help them reconnect with something that has been buried beneath fear, shame, trauma, or years of surviving.

Even the words on my walls are there to guide me.

"Compassion is the complete acceptance of another's humanness without knowing their story."

"Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive..."

These aren't decorations.

They're daily invitations.

Every morning before someone walks through my door, they remind me how I want to meet another human being...with curiosity instead of certainty, presence instead of performance, and compassion instead of judgment.

When I look around my office, I realize the deeper theme isn't just nature....it's relationship.

A mother tree leaning toward her child.
A child standing before her own strength.
A bear noticing the smallest thing.
A forest path.
Interconnected neurons.
Sacred reminders of wisdom, protection, compassion, and aliveness.

All of it reminds me that healing happens in relationship. Relationship with ourselves, with one another, with our bodies, with the natural world, and with something larger than ourselves.

People often think this work is about helping others change.

For me it is about creating the conditions where people begin to feel safe enough to remember who they have always been.

Because I believe that when the nervous system begins to experience safety, people don't become someone new.

They begin coming home to themselves.

Over the years I have become less interested in asking why people aren't changing. And more interested in asking what th...
06/29/2026

Over the years I have become less interested in asking why people aren't changing. And more interested in asking what they don't currently have access to.

Sometimes what looks like resistance is exhaustion, sometimes what looks like procrastination is overwhelm, and sometimes what looks like a lack of motivation is a nervous system that has been working overtime for years.

I have watched people gain access to clarity, creativity, grief, joy, courage, and connection...not because they learned a new strategy, but because their bodies no longer needed to spend so much energy staying protected.

What if the question isn't... "Why won't I change?" What if the question is:..."What becomes possible when my nervous system no longer has to work so hard to keep me safe?"

One of the biggest misunderstandings about the nervous system is that regulation means calm. It doesn't.I've seen regula...
06/23/2026

One of the biggest misunderstandings about the nervous system is that regulation means calm. It doesn't.

I've seen regulated people laugh loudly, cry deeply, have difficult conversations, take risks, set boundaries, launch businesses, and stand up for themselves.

Regulation isn't the absence of energy. It's the ability to use your energy in service of what matters. The goal isn't to become calm...the goal is to become more alive and more fully in your body.

I keep thinking about how many people are trying incredibly hard to heal, lead, parent, work, recover, or simply get thr...
06/16/2026

I keep thinking about how many people are trying incredibly hard to heal, lead, parent, work, recover, or simply get through the day, while living in bodies that never fully stand down.

We often ask, “What is wrong with me?”

But a more compassionate question may be: “What is my body still trying to protect?”

The nervous system does not organize around what we know intellectually. It organizes around what it has learned through experience.

Sometimes healing begins when we stop treating the body as the problem and begin listening to it as the messenger.

Theresa Hubbard invites you to pause, breathe, and enter a unique space of self-inquiry. This episode gently explores th...
04/17/2026

Theresa Hubbard invites you to pause, breathe, and enter a unique space of self-inquiry. This episode gently explores the uncomfortable moments when you cannot change what’s happening. Those times when solutions and fixes are out of reach, and presence becomes the only response.

Through personal storytelling and thoughtful questions, Theresa guides you to notice what rises within you in the face of uncertainty and powerlessness. Are you pulled toward action, reassurance, or explanation? Or can you sit with the moment, listening to what it asks of you?

This episode isn’t about solving problems; it’s about noticing your inner reactions and learning to trust yourself, even when answers aren’t clear. If you’re ready to deepen your self-awareness and cultivate the courage to stay present, tune in and discover the quiet power of simply being with what is.

Listen in, and let the questions linger, your inner knowing is waiting.

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Step into a gentle space of self-inquiry and inner listening with "My Inner Knowing." In this episode, host Theresa Hubb...
04/10/2026

Step into a gentle space of self-inquiry and inner listening with "My Inner Knowing." In this episode, host Theresa Hubbard invites you to slow down and release the pressure to analyze or remember. To simply notice what surfaces within you as you listen.

Through reflective questions and personal stories, Theresa explores the subtle signals of the body and the art of staying curious with sensations, rather than rushing to interpret or judge them. This episode is less than 15 minutes, yet it offers a powerful prompt: How do you know what your body is actually telling you?

Whether you feel recognition, resistance, or nothing at all, you’re guided to meet those feelings with openness. Discover how your body often senses change before your mind finds the meaning, and learn why true understanding takes time and patience.

Tune in to cultivate your ability to listen deeply to yourself and, over time, strengthen your trust in your own inner knowing. If you’re drawn to mindfulness, self-discovery, and gentle wisdom, this episode will inspire you to approach your inner world with more curiosity and compassion.

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