Problem Solvers Inc.

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I am a personal life coach that helps you navigate life with common sense tools

10/16/2024

Thoughts.

1. Leave everything and everyone better than you found them or it.

2. Don't pray for an easier life, pray to be stronger.

3. Motivation will get you started but discipline is what keeps you going.

4. Many people start an endeavor but very few stick with it.



5. Consistency is the key to success. Learn to be consistent, disciplined and stay on task even when it's just a little success is better than quitting.

6. One day or day one. You decide

7. You are not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Just master today.

8. You can either have results or excuses not both.

07/02/2024

Thoughts.
1. Success doesn't happen in a day but happens daily .

2. Imagination is a preview to lifes upcoming attraction.

3. Talk to kids about their dreams and teach them to dream.

4. Don't tell a big dream to a small minded person.

5. The road to success is always under construction.

6. You can't be both grateful and stressful at the same time.

7. Think about what you are thinking about. Journal and empty your soul of all darkness and then drink in gratefulness and throw away the darkness.

8. Get comfortable being uncomfortable. Success can be and will be uncomfortable. You will be up early, stay up late, few friends and misunderstood but it's worth it.

06/28/2024

Thoughts.

1. Father time is an undefeated foe. He has only stopped once in biblical times. You were blessed with today and it truly is a present.

2, Pursue diligently your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend today just like you pursued them yesterday.

3. I take care of my body and physical appearance for myself but also for my bride. I want her to know I respect her enough to be excellent.

4. Success is not about what you do when people are watching. Success is when you grind in the dark, journal in the mornings, listen to things that educate and not just entertain.

5. If you aren't serving your spouse or family because you are always serving others and seeking validation then everyone else gets your energy. The people you say you love may entertain emotions of resentment.

6. Good parents work their way out of jobs. A good father says no to the now because it's not in his child's best interest at this time. A good mother allows their children learn to deal with life issues and learn to self regulate and take responsibility.

7. Never put yourself in a position of temptation. Men go to lunch with men and not a person of the opposite s*x unless it's a group setting. You don't grab a coffee, go for a walk etc with the opposite s*x when you are in a relationship. Nothing may be happening but don't put yourself in a position to be perceived in an unjust manner.

8. We all fail, we all fall short, we all fall in the ditches of life. It's not about failing or falling it's how long you stay down. GET UP, REPENT, SHAKE YOURSELF OFF AND GET ON WITH IT.

9. Your children reach a certain age where their ears closed, their smarter than you are and you just are not with it. Remember this ... MOST OF LIFE IS CAUGHT NOT TAUGHT. IF THE KIDS SEE MOM AND DAD PUTTING EACH OTHER FIRST AND OVER THEM... they will do the same. WHEN THEY SEE TEAMWORK WITH HOUSE WORK. DAD OPENING DOORS, PROTECTING PROVIDING, MOM TREATING HER HUSBAND LIKE A KING AND THE LEADER OF THE HOME AND DAD TREATS HIS BRIDE LIKE A QUEEN, GOING TO CHURCH. THEY ARE SEEING IT.

06/26/2024

Thoughts.
1. It's not how you start out in life or the race, your job, etc. It truly is how you finish. Many people start well and then get complacent and self sabotage their success. Others start off poorly and promise themselves they will never be that person again.

2. Don't complain about the results your not getting from the work you aren't doing.

3. Motivation doesn't get you out of bed. Motivation doesn't make you keep your word to yourself. Motivation doesn't make you go work out, read, journal, serve your spouse. DISCIPLINE DOES ALL THAT. MOTIVATION IS FUELED BE FEELINGS. DISCIPLINE WORKS ON MINDSET.

4. We all have addictions, weaknesses, and habits that are not good for us. We all have to fight the good fight and try to improve daily. I have zero tolerance for people who say they want to change, complain about how miserable they are but will not do the work. They won't take the medicine, they won't change their sleep habits, they won't work out, they won't stretch and yet continuously complain.

5. If my bride says certain things I do bother her then I will intentionally try to do better or if their are things she wants me to do I'll write them down and try to do better and that is out of respect and love for her. I attempt to discipline myself to do or not do. She attempts to do the same. If your loved one says they need things and you just ignore it then you just basically disrespect their needs and shot them the bird.

6. Cover people with grace. When they leave the laundry in the wash then just switch it over and you don't have to tell everyone. If they drop their keys on the table then put them on the key rack so they can find them later. If all we do is find what's wrong it's because we get up looking for something to complain about. You find what you are looking for.

7. People who say you'll always be in debt are the people always in debt and the people who say I am going to be out of debt in 5 years will sacrifice for 5 to travel and live debt free for the rest of their lives. More people are in credit card debt today than ever in the history of our country.

8. If you ever are using the words "WHY BOTHER " TO YOURSELF THEN YOU ARE ABOUT TO SPIRAL DOWN A DEEP HOLE OF SELF PITY, DEPRESSION AND DESPAIR.
You need to bother. people do it with their weight, getting in shape, trying to get a job. You need to keep bothering because the alternative is to give up and be apathetic and just make excus

06/21/2024

Thoughts.

1. Train in private, grind in private and excel in public.

2. Private discipline will manifest public glory.

3. Reputation is what people think you are but characte is what you are when no one is watching.

4. Instant gratification is killing our mentality, grind, work ethic. We need more delayed gratification.

5. If there are no consequences for failure to obedience and expectations then character will not change.

6. Parents are to busy suggesting what their kids need to do and not actually setting boundaries, guidelines and expectations. If you ask your child why they feel so entitled or spoiled and their response is you raised me. He/she just gave you the answer to the issue...YOU

7. We need less kowtowing to feelings and start demanding excellence, merit, ability and we can still be compassionate but demand that you will show up on time, you will do what you are told and you are not as special as you think you are.

8. Your child needs to learn that the earth revolves around the sun and not them. As a christian the sun revolves around the SON NOT THEM.

9. Your priorities will be exposed by how you spend your time. If you say your priority is God but spend no time with him that is a lie. You say your priority is your spouse but every waking moment is with the kids or always at work then they are not a priority.

10. You get out of life what you expect out of life. LIFE HAPPENS FOR YOU NOT TO YOU.

06/20/2024

Thoughts.
1. Your life is how you choose to make it. You may choose to be bitter, or be better. You choose to be grateful or hateful. You choose to get up and enjoy the day or lay down and dread the day.

2. Life is hard. Success is hard. Being excellent is hard. Being at peace is hard. Godly priorities in a satanic filled secular world is hard. All these concepts requires discipline, faith and action

3. Chaos is easy. Failing is easy. Quitting is easy. Making excuses and blaming others is easy. Disorganized and Lazy is easy. Looking for excuses is easy. If you look hard enough on google or Web M.D you can find something or someone that will give you a reason you won't push through.

4. Excuses always sound best to the people that are making them.

5. Do not suffer imaginary events. (MARCUS AURELIUS)

Many times we have a movie in our head and get upset and these events haven't actually taken place.

6. Don't make another person pay for someone else hurting you in the past. Different person, different time.

7. You cannot put your foot in the same river twice. The river is changing and so are you. You are not the same a day later and the river has continued to move forward. Learn to forgive yourself and move on. It's in the past. One hour ago, one day ago, one year ago or 20 years ago. You can't change it, accept it and do better. QUIT REMEMBERING WHAT GOD HAS ALREADY FORGOTTEN AND FORGIVEN.

8. We don't do what we feel like doing. We do what we said we are going to do. Your kids are watching to see how you deal with life and adversity. If you base your ability to do life on feelings so will they.

9. Which comes first confidence or actions. Action comes first. The person scared to speak in public gets better and confident by speaking in public scared to death. You get confident in board breaking by breaking boards. You get confident in baseball by striking out and hitting a few balls. IT REQUIRES ACTION AND THE ACCEPTANCE OF FAILING IS A PART OF LIFE.

10. QUITTING IS A HABIT. MANY CHILDREN/ADULTS WILL QUIT AN ACTIVITY AS SOON AS THEY GET BORED OR IT GETS HARD. IF YOU OR YOUR CHILD IS ON THEIR 8TH ACTIVITY IT IS NOT THE ACTIVITY IT'S YOU.

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