12/31/2023
Today is the last day of the year, and there are many who are setting their resolutions for change.
The new year and its symbolism lends to the idea that we can create a brighter future with a fresh start and a somewhat clean slate.
It’s true we’re always changing, and you can always make the decision to change despite the date on the calendar.
But if now is the time in your life where you say, “The pain of staying the same is too great, and I must change,” then by all means—create that change for yourself.
And also... You don’t have to, if you don’t want to.
You don't have to put undue pressure on yourself, or live up to anyone's expectations, standards, or ideas.
Yes, you can always make the decision to set a new goal.
You can attempt to become a healthier version of yourself in August.
You can start exercising in April
You can start adopting different practices in the middle of October.
You can always make the decision to pursue goals and positive growth.
But if the new year is presenting you with an opportunity — TAKE IT.
This may be the moment where self-awareness is exhibiting itself.
You may be waking up to something you don’t necessarily want or need in your life anymore.
You’re allowed to make a change.
You’re allowed to reach for things.
You’re allowed to want and work towards a better version
Now or any other time.
This can be the starting line.
Or an introduction.
It can also be a celebration.
It doesn’t have to be some cliché New Year’s resolution, it can simply be thoughtful and purposeful intention.
My hope is that if this is something you’re going to pursue, you’ll take action towards it with vigor and courage.
Change takes work and consistency.
You have to show up to bat for it.
It is also completely possible.
All hope is not lost, but it usually requires shedding skin and becoming someone else.
• Write down what you’re after
• Find someone to help guide you and give you direction
• Add some measure of accountability
• Measure your progress in some way (not EVERY way—unless that’s how you’re wired)
Then, if you have the urge to do so, share your story.
In this way, you’ll inspire more people to not give up hope.
You’ll inspire people to create change in their own lives and be courageous in their own pursuit.
Even if it begins with thoughtful intention on New Year’s Eve.