04/23/2023
Emotional intelligence is learned. And we can nurture it in our kids. Here’s how.
Lead with empathy.
When a child is experiencing challenging feelings, and we acknowledge it::
- It makes them feel calmer and more secure, so they can begin to self-regulate.
- It helps them identify what emotion they are experiencing.
Kids need boundaries.
Children understand and feel secure when we set limits and make expectations clear. By setting boundaries, we’re giving them a guide to what’s appropriate, so they can confidently navigate the world.
Conflict resolution is a part of it too.
Involving children in making peace helps them take accountability and think creatively and empathetically. We can start by offering options: “Would you like to build the fort together or take some time in separate spaces?”
After a challenging incident with unwanted behavior, or even at the end of the day, we can encourage children to reflect on how they felt, what strategies helped, and whether they’d do anything differently.
With lots of love and nurturing care, we’re supporting and guiding children to successful futures.
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