Spotless Crime Clean, LLC

I just wanted to give a little update on the business side of life. Although Josh sadly can’t join me on crime scenes anymore, we are still open 24/7. We stayed open for many reasons. This business is our baby that we built from scratch. It’s therapeutic for me in so many ways. We are still needed, even as we go through a health speed bump in life. And most importantly, we have to help the families who are going through tragedies and having their worst days. It won’t be the strong couple showing up to the scene right now, but I’ll be there, Josh will likely be on FaceTime, and we will have an amazing crew. If you, a neighbor, a friend, a stranger, anyone; needs help, we are here for you. Day or night!! Sharing love, support, and smiles fills our cups and we are only a phone call or text away. 🙏🏼

Today has been a great day!! We are SO grateful!! 🙏🏼♥️🙌🏼

Thank you to everyone who has been sending texts to Josh. You have no idea how much it has lifted his spirits. I am forever grateful and I know Josh is too.
Today has been a great day so far! A morning walk with sunshine on our faces and lots of laughs. We spoke to MD Anderson, Houston this morning and we are going to be getting in with one of the top 7 Cholangiocarcinoma specialists in the US!! Praise God!! We love our medical team here, but with this cancer being so rare, we have to explore all options. We are feeling so blessed and grateful!!

Josh is full of jokes today, if anyone needs a laugh. We are rolling through the bad days and celebrating the good days. With our love and strength, combined with all of our amazing friends praying for us; we are going to get through this NO doubt!!

Have a beautiful day, friends! Make it count!!

Some days are just hard when you’re walking in the midst of a cancer diagnosis. Today has been a tough one, for Josh especially. Hearing, “I’m so scared to leave you” shattered my heart. 95% of the time we are strong and positive, but sometimes we break and that is part of being human. I told Josh that I don’t want him to fight this horrendous illness for me. I told him I want him to fight hard, but I love him enough to understand when he’s tired. I have come to realize that this all part of the journey. We talk about it and then we quickly get back to how we want our life to look when we are on the other side of this. How our love will be even stronger, our faith will be deeper, and the little things will never go unnoticed. We tell ourselves that God needed us to slow down and enjoy the little moments. We were running 4 businesses, always working, always hustling, and we didn’t stop to truly enjoy the beautiful life we built. Our morning walks with Mouse, holding hands are now my favorite time of the day.
I encourage everyone to slow down, hold hands, go on dates, laugh, have fun, make memories. Even though the hospital has become our home away from home lately, we still find the beauty. Cheering so loud for those ringing the bell after their last chemo, having chit chats with the volunteers, or just encouraging another patient. Even on the days that it’s so noticeable that our life has changed, we are reminded that there are amazing changes along with the struggles. We take every small triumph and celebrate it to no end!!

If anyone would like to come visit Josh, you’re always welcome. We just ask that you check to see if he’s up for visitors that day. And as always, he LOVES getting encouraging/positive texts. Something that may take you 2 minutes, makes his week!! I love him with everything I have!! Cancer messed with the wrong couple!! 💚🙏🏼

Our love is my favorite!! Although I absolutely hate being on scenes without him, I’m getting it done, with his support. And I’m getting pretty darn good at clearing houses by myself. 🙌🏼💪🏼

Update on my sweet love, Josh. Josh asked me to give everyone an update on our cancer journey. We hope that by sharing our story we can help at least one person. The good, bad, and the ugly. We saw Josh's PET scan on Monday and it took our breaths away to say the least. Josh is at Stage IV of Cholangiocarcinoma. Pulmonary did a chest biopsy, checking many lymph nodes that have spread up from his bile duct. In true Josh fashion, they couldn't get him to sleep and he was wide awake the whole procedure. They maxed him out on meds for moderate sedation. I love his strength! We met with a new Oncologist after the biopsy and he is on board with us to fight like hell!! We are going in with an aggressive approach. We start chemo/immunotherapy Monday morning. He will get his first infusion (battle juice) for 5 1/2 hours. And our Oncologist is completely on board for sending us to MD Anderson or a bigger cancer center if he feels like that is the next step in healing. The pain is so severe that he is on a transdermal Fentanyl patch and Dilaudid q 4 hrs. and unfortunately that doesn't take all the pain away. To say this has been one of the hardest things we have had to go through is an understatement. But we have fallen in love even harder. You'll find us laughing at the Dr's office and rooting each other on. There have been tears, but for the most part we have been staying EXTREMELY strong. Finding foods that he can tolerate has been a challenge and he states that I am the best smoothie maker in Texas. 😁
Our life looks much different than it did 6 months ago, but we are trusting God and know that it is his plan and we aren't questioning. We temporarily shut K-n-J down for now and I am solely running Spotless Crime Clean, LLC. I hated the first scene I had to do without him, but him telling me how proud he is of me, fills my heart to the brim. We are open to having visitors over to see him, it is just unpredictable when he feels up to seeing anyone. So on his good days, we welcome anyone who wants to stop by. He loves getting inspirational and positive texts although most of the time he doesn't have the energy to text back. A lot of people ask us what we need. We need all the love, support, and prayers we can get. The only other wish is comments to Josh that will uplift him. I am going to make him a binder of all the positivity and inspiration that friends send, that he can read during his first treatment. My goal is to get him out on the boat soon for a little fishing. I will likely need someone to back the boat into the water and load it back onto the trailer. I can handle the rest. Me trying to unload it and load it might be a catastrophe and he isn't able to drive at all.
We are excited to start his battle juice on Monday and start shrinking this cancer. We have many more adventures we want to go on in our future, we just have to get over this speed bump. Thank you, as always for everyone praying, texting us, calling, and just being a good friend. We see you and appreciate you. Hug your loved ones tight and then hug them again. You never know when your life will literally be turned upside down. And please do us a favor and hug your moms tight too. It was 4 years ago today that my mom was taken far too soon in a tragedy. What I would do to have her here helping us through this battle.
We are armed, our hearts are full, and we are ready to BEAT THIS BATTLE. F you cancer!! Love to all!!!!

Josh is recovering from another procedure yesterday. Meanwhile we received a call for another su***de. 💔
Employees were busy, so stubborn me went and knocked it out solo!
Josh wasn’t happy, but he can never stay mad at me for long. 🤭

One thing my sister Kelli McCarty Oseen and I both got from our mom is that you can do anything. And you can do anything on your own. Even hard things. I asked for her help from heaven to get it done and that’s all I needed.

Prayers for another family. 🙏🏼
Prayers for my sweet hubby (they removed the stent from his bile duct and replaced it with a new one). More biopsies done, so it’s the waiting game again.


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**Glove was brand new and just for the pic. I’m known for my pink gloves and boots. No cross contamination. 🩷

Three su***de calls. One attempted su***de. One week.

Some weeks remind us just how heavy life can feel for so many people.

Behind every job is a family forever changed, friends searching for answers, and hearts carrying unimaginable grief.

We ask you to join us in praying for these families, for healing, comfort, strength, and peace.

If you’re struggling, please know that your life matters. Your story matters. There is help available.

Take a moment today to check on someone you love. Sometimes a simple call, text, or conversation can make all the difference.

Our hearts are broken for these families. Please keep them in your prayers. 🙏🏼

We just finished our 2nd su***de in less than a week. When we are just processing one, we are thrown another one. It’s a lot. People ask us how we deal with it. Josh and I of course debrief and talk about it as little or as much as we need, but we also make sure we do little things that seem so mundane but mean so much to the family. Today we folded all the shirts. We stacked all the baseball caps. We laid the shoes neatly below the clothes. We straightened up the room.
We can’t always make it look like nothing happened, especially when we have to pull up flooring, spackle bullet holes, or scrape the ceiling. But what we can do is put a little love back into the room. After all that was someone’s home, their safe place.
Rest in peace, Sir. We are sorry you were in so much pain.

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