08/20/2026
What a difference one track meet can make. 💙
At Lilly’s first track meet, she walked away with a few 3rd-place finishes (you can see at the end of the video)… and you would have thought the world had ended, although she worea fake smile. 😂 She was disappointed. REALLY disappointed.
We talked about it afterward, and she eventually admitted something that stuck with me: she knew she was ahead in her heats, so she didn’t push as hard as she could have.
That realization could have turned into an excuse. Instead, it turned into motivation!
Fast forward to meet #2…
This girl showed up differently. She pushed harder. She competed harder. She believed she could do better—and came home with a few BLUE RIBBONS. 🥇💙
Am I proud of the ribbons she won? Of course.
But I’m way more proud of what happened between the two meets.
She took disappointment, sat with it, figured out what SHE could control, and then did something about it.
She still has plenty of room to grow. She can get stronger. Faster. More experienced. There will absolutely be races where she doesn't win and probably some more sad-sack moments along the way. 😂
But at 11 years old, she’s already learning something that took me much longer:
Where you start doesn't matter nearly as much as what you do next.
Watching her determination, effort and mindset shift has been pretty damn inspiring.
Sometimes we’re supposed to teach our kids.
And sometimes, if we’re paying attention, they turn around and teach us. ❤️