02/29/2024
Koreans like any other people love compliment. Who doesnt!!!
But Koreans are very critical of themselves and others. IDK...why...but we are.
If they start giving negative opinions about...they think you guys are now close enough.
How do you fight off...or defend against their opnions?
Just say thank you.
Just agree with them.
Ask them for advise.
But you give them compliments.
Give.them good vibe.
They will love you.
We are raised to be great.
Not to love or be loved.
We are very competitive.
We are very miserable inside...(not all).
But...we are.
We show our misery by comparing with you or comparing you with standard.
We have a very hard time loving someone..or him or herself.
We act kind...but that is a disguise of culture.
You have to love them before they share their misery.
I know many of my friends suffering from this pressure to succeed from their childhood. We have very hard time recognizing this in us especially if they think they are successful.
Many of our dramas teach us this disease in us. But very few think it is in them.
Hope you make good friends with Korrans.