04/24/2026
50/50 custody is often seen as the “fairest” solution.
But fair for parents doesn’t always mean it feels best for kids.
Some families make it work beautifully.
For others, the back-and-forth can be harder than people expected.
And most parents are just doing their best to figure it out as they go.
So I’m really curious…
Parents — in your experience, is 50/50 custody working for your kids?
👇 What have you seen?
04/17/2026
You don’t notice it while you’re in it.
The rushed mornings.
The “watch this!” moments.
The times you’re half-listening while finishing something else.
It all feels small. Temporary. Replaceable.
But it’s not.
This is the version of home they’ll carry with them—
into friendships, into relationships, into the way they see themselves.
Not the perfect moments.
Just the consistent ones.
And the wild part is…
you don’t get a redo on what this felt like for them.
So maybe it’s not about doing more.
Maybe it’s about noticing what’s already happening…
before it becomes something you miss.