We Talk She Talk

Ladies this is what I’m talking about! And don’t we all think we’re the only one in the little skiff out on the rough waters?
What if you had some tools?
What if you had a mindset that served you when s**t hit the fan?
What if you had a community of women where you felt safe to open up?
What if we did this sooner than later?
Put LETS GO
IN TBE CHAT

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“The Bag” ➡️

Brain storming taking this movement forward. Out in the sunshine, with my TLC (True Legacy Collective) sisters, learning from each other, making things happen, going to a show, making new connections, learning self security, getting a few new swag items.

This is me, continuing to serve as my own best advocate, in charge of what I put in my brain and mouth every day, what I take out of my space that doesn’t serve me, while creating a more and more authentic and aligned life. There are no short cuts, well maybe if tou count speeding up progress.
The We Talk She Talk vision is about talking better to ourselves and awareness first.
To do something every day that’s uncomfortable because that’s the place the magic happens.
We think we want easy and comfy but that gets boring and doesn’t translate into getting to your dreams.
So thankful to be growing every day and especially in the past 4 years. Getting into rooms and groups and practices that serve me therefore serving those around me.

Let’s GOOOOOO!!!! 🔥💥😊

L. Frank Baum wrote The Wizard of Oz in 1900, and over a century later its message still feels timeless. ✨

Dorothy, the Scarecrow, the Tin Man, and the Lion each spent the journey searching for what they believed they lacked… only to discover they had it within them all along.

Maybe that’s the real lesson of Oz:
we are not here to become worthy —
we are here to remember who we already are.

This concept has been done over and over by all the personal development masters for a good reason!

What we learn from our culture, communities and families growing up programs us to dim our light, not express our full potential, and that robs the world of our likelihood of sharing our gifts!
But no one is doing this TO us. We have made it all up.
The good thing is!!! We all can rewrite the narrative with an instant decision.
Decide. Remember who you were meant to be.
Those ruby slippers looked dreadfully uncomfortable along the yellow brick road!

Who can we enroll to help us redescover our true worth? Proximity is power!

We Talk She Talk is a platform supporting self talk that lift up!!
Simple. Self talk is mostly in our minds and not spoken out loud. When I asked my GPT I got this…. ✅🙌😮

You’re mostly living in your head—your inner voice is doing the heavy lifting. 💪 🧠

And here’s the part that actually matters for your life and business:🙏

That inner 90–95% is quietly shaping your confidence, decisions, relationships, and even how you show up with clients and your partner.

Okay back to MY THOUGHTS!

When we say bad things about ourselves our brain 🧠 doesn’t know the difference between what’s real and what’s made up! So why not make up amazing things?!!
Or at least CATCH 🎣 yourself when you start to bash yourself!
It’s a brain train 🚂 worth trying. Wait! Trying sucks, doing is better.
Here’s Bruce Lee to back me up

Certainty and significance will get you stuck! Why?!
Certainty is the need for things to stay the same. ✅. NEVER GONNA HAPPEN! So get comfortable with more uncomfortable time on the planet 🌎!!!!
Significance (slow killer and comparison zone!!!) is a hamster wheel! 🛞! Why you’re trying to be significant, your buddy next to you is doing the same thing! It’s absurd 🤪

We grow or we die! So learn something, get off your stuck mindset. Grow in some way. And the last of the 6 is contribution.
When you’re giving back you can only be in gratitude! 🙏
Sharing your gifts is powerful. And we all have them! 🤗👋🏻
What is 1 thing you can do today to share your gift to the world? 🌍
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Behind every decision you’ve ever made is one of the 6 human needs. 👉 Comment “QUIZ” to discover your top human need. 1: Certainty 2: Uncertainty/Variety 3: Significance 4: Connection/Love 5: Growth 6: Contribution We all share them, but the ones we choose to prioritize and how we meet them explain everything about the patterns that are either helping us or keeping us stuck. Knowing which needs are running your behavior, and whether the way you’re meeting them is actually serving you, is some of the most valuable insight you can have. 👉 Comment “QUIZ” and I’ll send you a quick exercise to identify your top human need. Podcast: @thediaryofaceopodcast

Ladies…..
1) Opening up ❤️❣️💔slowly is diffident than not showing vulnerability.
2) Moving forward slowly is easier than moving backwards!
3) Your settled nervous system trumps their feeling of comfort or discomfort.
4) Your gut knows. Listen to it now or later when the damage is done.
5) decide on the harder decision early to avoid bigger issues later.
6) a ball at the top of the hill has less momentum.
7) proximity to ones who lift you up is a thing.
9) Slow down! The magic is in the PAUSE!
10) Confusion and curiousity keep you in the game! Stay. 😮🙄☺️

Someone implied I was not being vulnerable recently. Not for 1 second did I believe that. I knew I was evaluating, gathering data, opening up slowly. My pace my rules for my mind body and spirit! Everyone needs to have their own process that works for them.
Women need to feel safe #1. Men want respect. So respecting your body and heart he SHOULD find attractive!
Of course this post was derived from a personal experience. Hoping one or two nuggets will help someone!

You cannot control how others feel, what they will think, how they will react to you. Being you and keeping your body and mind and heart feeling aligned will bring you the people who are your people. This alone will shed those who no longer serve you and visa versa.

Doing for others has nothing to do with sacrificing yourself. They WILL understand and have you’re best interests in mind if they care about you. 👏🏻

If you read this whole thing you will see I skipped a # above! For some reason when I tried to type that number the 😎 emoji wanted to insert itself!
Life is funny. Unexpected. Like the 😎 emoji.
Love ❤️ comes first.

We Talk She Talk is in the process of being turned into a place for all things women 22 to 32! Or something like that.
Soon we will be offering young women a place too cultivate their dreams, goals, passions! We will also be a sounding board for areas that can get sticky for you! You will never hear me use the four letter word HARD. Instead of hard use the work OPPORTUNITY or CHALLENGING. Even challenging is not my favorite, but hard? Doesn't hard just give you that feeling of heavy, weighted, uphill climb?
I and my business collaboration partner BOTH have deep dived into the Tony Robbins methodology and plan to share what we have learned, as women in life, and what we have intentionally learned from 100's of combined hours in personal development and creating our own unique recipe's for success.

I have been a business owner for 19 years (yes, 19 years April 11!). My FIRST passion is and has been raising 3 amazing humans and then growing my staging company while growing and learning daily.
Kendra, founder and CEO at The Thank You Theory, mother, wife, personal development certified coach and friend is now my collaborative partner.
We are brewing with ideas, excitement and cultivating something not done before, Well, done before but not by us. This is something we will also be exposing you to (not teaching, exposing!).
We will show you that even if someone else does what your skill is, it is not YOU. You are unique and special and will bring YOU to the table. Something no one else can replicate.
Here we go. Stay tuned for more exciting things to come,