I have been a proud member of the B**M community since the late 1990s, and began teaching on the topic out of my own passions and fantasies, and a deep commitment to the practice of B**M for health and happiness. Kinky play involves a relationship dynamic that requires intelligence, responsiveness, and communication. When practiced well, I believe B**M is a ritual of intimacy that provides those i
nvolved with cathartic enrichment and pleasure. All erotic exchanges should be grounded in mutual consent, communication, and trust, and the practice of B**M can elevate these ethics into an art form. I like to introduce novice explorers and veteran players alike to a style of kinky exchange that is graceful, intense, loving, and skilled. I do not consider dominance to be tantamount to the right to act irresponsibly or in a negative manner. I love to smile and laugh when I play and inspire people with my love and deep enjoyment of all that the leather lifestyle has to offer. My greatest satisfaction comes from unlocking passions in the lives of those I come in contact with in the dungeon. I welcome players of all persuasions and experience levels. I am pleased to work with individuals and couples who are seeking guidance and input on their journey into kink. Whether you are working through your B**M desire, or vanilla-identified and seeking to better understand a kinky partner, my consultation services can offer insight and tools to better understand yourself and your relationships. With over a decade’s experience living and working in the B**M community, I can offer compassion and expertise on a variety of topics, including:
Understanding the root and nature of your interest in fe**sh, fantasy and B**M
Coming out to your partner
Exploring your local B**M community
Finding a play partner who shares your interests
Communication and negotiation techniques for partners of any orientation
I provide you with a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental setting in which you can talk freely about the role B**M plays in your life and receive education, skills and resources to help you find happiness and fulfillment in your kink. Perhaps the greatest misperception about B**M play is that it is an abusive act perpetrated out of malice and with the intent to humiliate. Popular culture is rife with images that foster this stereotype, and I take great pleasure in teaching and practicing B**M in a manner that dismantles these myths. Sensuality is at the heart of a good B**M exchange. I have watched the strongest, most controlling of men happily crumble at the command of a seductive woman. I take great pleasure in observing the power of seduction and the playful agony of denial as one is held captive, inches away from what they cannot have. I can show you how a soft touch or a gentle tease can often accomplish what a firm hand cannot. I enjoy tempering strictness with sensuality and feel that different scenes call for different measures of both. I am a warm woman and like to inspire others to invest their dominance with humanity, sensuality, and grace without diminishing the intensity of the B**M dynamic. Sensuality is a tool as powerful as the whips I wield or the restraints I employ. Pain is certainly not the only way to induce a state of absolute submission – the lightest touch can be powerfully commanding, and the warmth of breath against bare skin can be overwhelmingly controlling. I am an intelligent, elegant, articulate fun Mistress. I have nearly fifteen years professional and private experience in B**M and enjoy light to heavy play in most areas. I trained under and had the pleasure of working with some of the most experienced Master's within our community. It's from this breadth of collective experience that I draw from engagimg in an authority transfer dynamic. My style is personal, intuitive and intense. In our daily lives, we rightly avoid pain as something unpleasant at best and dangerous at worst. I’d like to introduce you to a new way of experiencing "pain" as intense, cathartic sensation, expertly applied with a precision knowledge of the human body. Forget what you’ve seen in the movies: SM is about challenging your body and your psyche, and finding a new kind of strength through surrender and submission. I prefer grace and elegance to bludgeoning, and understand that desires and limits vary greatly among individuals. Regardless of your experience or intensity level, the most profound vacation from your daily life and the affairs of the world can come from surrendering and entrusting yourself to compassionate, skilled hands. My leather represents the weight of responsibility I carry for my Leather House and my community. It reminds me that I am covered by their love and have a duty to protect this way of life within myself and others. I believe that service is the greatest form of love. I hope I can continue to serve for many years to come.
