The Real Black Man

Hate..!!
One of the most dangerous emotion.
It is important that we understand the way it works.
This understanding is the only thing that will help you live around it as it isn't going away.

Hate is simply the last resort when a person is helpless against a situation... outcome.... another person...etc.

Hate is usually generated from a weaker person towards the stronger one.

Children usually hate parents
Civilian usually hate cops
Student usually hate teacher
Prisoner usually hate guard
Employee usually hate boss
Racist usually hate different race

The list goes on and on.
So anytime a person hate something or someone...it is because of his weakness..His inability to change a situation....to be a certain way....to control an outcome....etc.

On the surface it is about:

Right vs Wrong
Black. vs. White
Christian vs Muslim
Thugs. vs Cops
Good vs Bad

But internally it is about:

Strong vs Weak
Confident vs Self-conscious
Happy vs Unhappy
Intelligent. vs Unintelligent
Humble. vs Arrogant.

For sure what's happening can be very hard to digest and cannot be justified by any of these.

But a good and positive State of mind is necessary for any person to achieve anything.
Specially.. success.!!

I find positivity in the understanding of how much the hate for themselves is our fault

I find confidence in the understanding of how Self-conscious they are.

I find tranquility in the understanding of how
Weak they are.

I hope all Mankind find peace and love ...!!

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Attention...!!

In this highly competitive world we are living in.....Men are becoming more and more hungry for power..... dominance.... control....Money......Materials....etc.
But in reality they are craving for attention.

A man deprive of attention become very weak emotionally ( Weak character)
A woman deprive of attention become very weak morally ( Weak Values)

In this two areas is where all mankind problems comes from.
A weak Man will consequently:

Be a racist as the only way to feel superior
Be a pe*****le as the way to feel like a Man
Be a Liar as the only way to prove a point
Be a thief as the only way to earn more
Be a cheater as the only way to get attention

The occupational role within the family unit is the only place where Men and Women will quench their thirst for attention.

But with the infiltration of Social media within our families....now Men and Women are looking for attention in the wrong place.

We are seeing a new generation of Men:
So Low
So Weak
So Immoral
So Racist
So Fake
So Dumb
So heartless

This is unfortunately affecting all races.....all gender.....and almost all ages.

Men.... women.... Children are all from one family unit.
When the Men decide to look for attention elsewhere.....then who is the new receiver of the Women and Children attention:
Of course Social media.

For the few real Men out there... Intelligent Men.....God fearing Men.... Courageous Men..... Smooth Men... Honest Man...Humanity definitely depends on you.
So focus on your Family please....and you should find peace and tranquility.

Peace and love to Mankind.....!!!!!

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Staying Positive..!
We all know that positive is better than negative....but we also know that there is a duality which brings both to become paired
There is a duality in everything that exist ....which is the extreme poles and anything between them.
This is simply the law of nature....and somehow...some people are using this law to manipulate the life of others.
Understand my language when I say manipulate the life of others.
This law is no one law....it is simply the law of nature, and anyone obeying it..shall profit from it.
But people please believe that the real harm that is being done to us is by a very small group of people.
Their mission is just to turn everyone against us. They want to turn you completely against the law of nature.
These people are the Media outlets and the Producers( Movies..shows etc)
At this point I don't claim to have a solution... but I do know that they are the one we should watch out for.
Their agenda is simply to broadcast negative images about us.

Every image that you see about black peoples somehow is violence...sadness....rap....money....argument...sport...poverty.
And we all know that this is not a reality.
This is what our children are capturing for their future unless we expose them to something more constructive.

The side effects to that is:
To demoralize you... down you...make you feel sad...and consequently....stop your growth.

Stop feeding to their lies and BS. Stop listening to them.... they are everywhere... on social media...on tv
Unfollow all negative sources.....mute all negative news Sources.
You have to stay positive people and stay away from negativity.

If we can maintain a long lasting state of positivity we will effortlessly and I mean effortlessly reach our goals.

We will never stop them from hating us. They know why they are doing this. Just ask yourself why so much effort in suppressing our growth.

Our children hold our most vital energy.... the most vital energy on the globe. What ever they envision shall come into existence.
Stop letting your children watch these garbage....and envision that for themselves.
Don't expose them to fear. Let them dream about being Doctors...president.....college professor.....Governors......decision makers.
It does not take too much for them to learn about these despicable humans.

Be positive....cut all negative sources.... don't let them take that away from you.
Let them be negative and let us stay positive.

We can fight in positivity
We can learn in positivity
We can love in positivity
We can protect in positivity
We can provide in positivity
We can be positive.....we will be positive.

Let them be the negative
Let them be the despicable
Let them be the liars
Let them be the mediocre humans
Let them be the hatters
Let them be the phony one

Peace and love to all mankind!!!

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Vision..!
A potential reality projected by the brain into practice based on reality.
We have 2 sets of reality....and please pay attention....!
1/
First reality is organically unfolding..... It's our everyday life.... activities... interactions....
The things that are happening in direct connection to us.
From this reality.....we only become experts at what we've done. That is how we Evolve as humans.

2/
Second reality is creatively unfolding.... it's happening within our normal reality...but it took more energy or effort for it's manifestation. This is where vision comes from.
For example:
After watching Jordan.... every kids vision their self based on what they just watch.
After watching Superman....my son couldn't stop pretending to a superhero for months...lol!

So my statement is to you Hollywood actors... especially... African American actors.
When your people watch the movies you are playing.... your role is the most important part....not your status....not your power...not your wealth.....but your role.

Your role is formulating a vision for your people.....so help them envision....to be better than what they are already.... better than they reality...... better than slavery time.

I still cannot understand why...... black actors are still playing.. gangsters role..... players roles.... clowns roles and last.... slaves roles...... what else do we need to know about that part of our history.
We know how they were stolen
We know how they were transported
We know how they were sold
We know how they were named
We know how they were separated
We know how they were beaten
We know how they were r***d
We know how they were murdered
We know how they were smart
We know how they were courageous
We know how they were beautiful
We know how they were hopefully
We know how they were patient for hundreds of years...... just so they can have a better life...and we still cannot Carry the torch.

We need you actors to stop destroying our children vision.....stop selling they future.
If you cannot give them a positive vision on becoming... Doctors.... Astronauts..... Governors....... Excellent Father/Mother.... Engineers...... then don't give them any at all.

Stop being so weak...stand like a man.... and protect the next generation...we had our time.
Now let's secure one for our babies...!!!!

Peace & Love...!!!

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Parenting..!
By far, it is the most important role...!
Parenting is simply the slow-progressive transfer of responsibilities from parents to childrens.....
Before-transfer we have an immature child
After-transfer we must have an mature adult

I call it the upbringing of an immature child on becoming a mature adult..

Qualification number 1 is maturity. How can one immature adult do this when millions of mature adults are failing..... because of some external element that they cannot control such as:

Drugs
S*x
Bad parenting
Money
Organized gang
Bad influence
Perverts

The list go on...

It's so unfortunate that we are drifting away from the most important transition... between us.

The most important element in parenting is approval... Without approval a child growth is paused only until they get some sort of approval from a different sources.

You can maximize your children chances to be very balanced growing up with these steps below.

Step 1
From the age 0 to 7....
Try your ultimate best to be the care giver of your children... just let the detachment be slow and natural.
Let them play as much as they want...but most importantly never deprive them of yourself... You are what they know.

Step 2
From age 7 to14
By the age 7, children will start the experimenting process....after many years of observation and playing....now they are ready to try more serious things.
So if they watched you read books.... most likely they will pick up one..
This is the approval stage.
Just approve them.... praise them.... tell them that they are beautiful... smart... good kid.... champion.... etc.
Never criticize them.... these are just babies for God's sake... and they are in a learning process which requires approval.

Step 3
From age 14 to maturity
This is the last stage...so you don't want to lose them.... and if you do, chances are you will never get them back.
This stage is only to support them. Now they are in the real world.. facing the reality concerning their gender.... color..... intelligence.... social class..... Identity... etc. So the last thing they need on top of all of these..is your criticism about their temporary failures.
Failure is only temporary until you push yourself more.....so they need our support to go back out there and try again and again until they conquer:
Discrimination
Insecurity
Inequality
Racism
Bad influence
Addiction
Temptation
And more

Until we are mature... patient...and strong enough....our children are in great danger.

They did not ask to be here.....so for you to decide for them to be here.. give them what they deserve to live a decent life.... which is a good parenting...!!

Peace and love....!!!

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Better...
Which race is better ?
A very controversial question...and I am sure that many have different opinions...
But opinions does not constitute truth.... however Facts does.
And to be better... one must reach the highest level of excellence and effectiveness amongst all in comparison with.
So basically one must merit to be better.
Better is not inherited...it is earned..

For one race to better than another..... first:
Be better in humanism
Be better in standing for justice
Be better in being honest
Be better in authenticity to your gender
Be better in preserving our natural resources
Be better in coexistence
Be better in cohabitation
Be better in prosecution
Be better in judging
Etc...

So to all races out there claiming to be better than another race.... only your actions can support that....and this mentality definitely does not support being better......in contrary it support the fact that you are a very unintelligent human and therefore is far from being better.

If one wants to be better...one must better in your primary role.
Better police officer
Better president
Better governor
Better journalist
Better movie producer
Better judge
Better father
Better mother
Etc....

Be better for all, not only for those you feel are deserving..... because those may not be deserving according to another of your kind...

Just be better and accept the course of nature...
One that is better welcome competition....but one that is weaker suppress competition.

Peace and love to all humans...!!!!


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Self Hate...
In today society... self hate is completely destroying our families.
Our Men's hate themself so much that they would wear all kinds of worthless jewelries, place all kinds of garbage in their mouths,.. and many more useless... accessories.
Our women consequently now work all week to get all their pay dumped on worthless accessories that really diminished their values and beauty. Billions of dollars are being profited of our self hate. And they still hate you on top of your own self hate.
Anytime a person rely on some external element to make them feel good about themselves.... will Soon or later value that element more than themselves.
That is self hate at it's finest....
The next step in the self hate process is to hate those that are the closest to you in the element that you hate about yourself. Which more likely will be your own people.
Racism emotion is simply generated by a delusional state of mind that is created by your ego to make you feel that you are better than someone else.
But the real emotion that bother you so much deep inside is envy for something you can never have... which translates into racism.
So now you know what it is....
How can a human being let another human being that you share all faculties ( millions) but one (skin color) make him hate himself..
It's time for self love.... It's so simple. Just love yourself more than anything else.

Peace....!!!!


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Logical thinking....!
We've gotten so blinded by all of these nonsense in the world today..
There is only one truth..and it is the Almighty.
All praises and worshipping are for Him.
Men have done nothing...but to confuse themselves. We living in time when..... vanity... nudity....hate.... arrogance..... competition.... violence.... are normal.
But love.... tolerance..... humbleness..... decency...... collaboration... dignity....... politeness... are abnormal.

Where is men logical thinking.... before it's too late.

Where is men realization that this life is going to end one day...

Where is man courage...and stay away from injustice... But stand firm for justice

Where is Men dignity....and keep they Head high...... stand firm for good manners and strong values..

Where is Men intelligence....and stop competing...but stand firm for collaboration

Where is Man loyalty....and stop turning your back on these babies....but stand firm in protecting your vulnerable family

What is wrong with Men today..... emotionally weaker than a child....who depends on them.

An old man told me before.....he said..

"Arrogance and Ignorance are very close neighbor"

"Self hate is the consequence of cowardice"

Men must regain his logical thinking before it's too late...!!!!

Men must realize that there is nothing that will change the course of his life.
He will one day be forgotten or remembered !!!

Work for one...!!

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We use the word.. "Our Community" quite a bit, but are we aligned with it's principals...
The family unit is the core of these principals. Family is where all the work should be done... In the family we have the father, mother and children's.
Father:
One of his role is to be the provider, which leads him to go out and find provision. A protector which leads him to observe society and consequently protect his family and prepare his children.
Mother:
The mother most important role is the transfer of ownership of the children to the father. It is extremely important that the mother slowly convince the children to obey and love the Father. At birth the baby will naturally only trust the mother. But it's her role to hand over that trust to the father, rather than using it against him which will consequently hurt the children in a long run.
Children:
Children learn from the parents. Parents should simply raise their children with the understanding that one day they will be released to the community.
So in my opinion, Everytime we speak about community, we must be ready to do the things that benefit our community.
Respect
Honor
Politeness
Honesty
Hard work
The list goes on. We must teach our children values instead of letting them do what they want and expect communities to accept them.
As I said before. When one wants success, one must engage many challenges.
So while we are fighting for justice and equality.. we can do other things privately. And this is just one of many things we can do to achieve our goal..
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Where do we go from here?
It is extremely important that we act with all honesty when dealing with human affairs. There is only two sides.
The good
The bad
And you can only be one....
Why are we here in the first place people ?. It's the fact that our efforts, sacrifice, contributions aren't being recognized. Our progress is being suppressed. Our dignity and honor are being played with...Our brothers are being murdered..
But through all of this, we see big corporation distancing from any racist commentator, cutting sponsorship from racist business owners like CrossFit. We are witnessing millions of people from all races marching with us today, risking their lives or getting arrested.
Let's not be ungrateful to them. Let watch the way we address this problem.
Let's not make the real racist laugh at the millions of people, and tell them" see how they act or treated you"
Let's not make them regret their actions, and join the racist.
It's just time for justice all around. For sure we need to fight for our rights, but only while respecting the same right of others that we are asking.
Peace!!!!


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