Lani scozzari

10/04/2026

7 weeks more of being a parent to an adult child. More learning, more understanding…

10/03/2026

Something must be wrong with me…

When the external world doesn’t necessarily match, what we are experiencing sometimes I have felt like if nothing’s or no one is noticing or no one else is having this experience maybe it is just me…

The world tells us all the time, don’t feel this, don’t feel that, don’t think this…

What happened to you isn’t that bad…

What happened to you happened because maybe you wanted it to happen…

And maybe some of that is true because I BELIEVE it for myself.

Maybe I believe that yes, something must be wrong with me…

Just noticing this.

Loved my time last weekend with 8 incredible women and so looking forward to practicing more in November. 2 spots left. 🤍

09/19/2026

What a gift to do this work. As I always say it’s a dream I didn’t know I had. Come join in November…

08/01/2026

How we must care for ourselves and be fully available to them is a wild, almost impossible scenario…We give and give and give and then give more.

In every way, work harder, cook more, all the decisions and all the hoping and figuring out. And it doesn’t end, it shifts though doesn’t end.

If I had to give one piece of advice to myself or any other, keep giving to yourself, take the time for understanding yourself. Go to the healing retreat, go for the run, go find yourself a community (even if it’s just one person) that can see you and help you give space to who YOU are.

It matters because at the end of the day, I have myself and myself only and without myself I cannot show up for my girls in the ways I desire.

Not easy, I am continually reminding myself of this which is why I teach

07/15/2026

While my children navigate the sometimes dark crevices life has to offer, I too, navigate with them.

For myself and for them and for all the mothers who know how it feels to hold a crying child in your arms at all hours of the day or night as they wish life could be different, life could be easier.

This is the work, I remind myself. And sometimes, if only for a moment, your child will feel as if they belong and there is beauty and good in this world right alongside them.

Let their belonging remind me too, I belong…

07/05/2026

It’s always the best reminder and self check for me when I teach something.
I teach because I am always practicing and I am always learning and remembering.

I am not an expert on anyone else. Not my children, not my partner… help me know this and come back into myself, into my own learning about who I am and what I need and how to meet those needs so I can keep showing up.

04/23/2026

And all the details of life and all the trying to get accomplished and all the feeling like we don’t do enough, there are moments when I remember the beauty, and these are the moments which anchor me in the truth. I am so grateful to be here, welcoming this next group of women. What an honor

03/16/2026

Somedays, especially when they were young, those hours in the night rocking and nursing and up again an hour later from one crib to another …

those long moments when I don’t know how to make it better for them,

when life swirls so quickly and fiercely that I can hardly stand and they need me to hold them up… all of this.

The container of the mother is so vast. We hold the deepest joys and magic AND the sorrows.

For one day, they will be nearly ready to move to a new city all on their own…

Help me make space in myself for all of it.

11/18/2025