08/27/2026
You could be saying the most helpful, reasonable thing in the world.
If the person receiving it is activated — racing, defensive, bracing — it just won’t land. Not because they don’t care. Because their nervous system isn’t in a state to receive it yet.
This isn’t about being a better communicator. It’s about checking their state before you check your words. There are usually some clear signs, if you know what to look for.
Follow along — midlife women figuring this out together.
Practice, not perfection.
🤍 Karin