Radiantly Flourish Coaching

I'm doing something special for my email list and that is sending them sneak peeks for the Flourish Daily Planner!

This week I'll be sending them a downloadable, printable Weekly Review document to help them AVOID burnout and make sure they are ALIGNED with their goals each week!

If you'd like to get this sneak peek, all you have to do is comment below with the word, sneakpeek!

You are so great at keeping the peace, helping others, and seeing all sides to a situation. ⁣

Although it 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘴 like it's your job to make everyone okay...it's not.

I know it feels like the burden falls on your shoulders and it also feels great to know that you are helping.

What others want most from you, is for you to just show up and be present. Not distracting yourself with making sure everyone's okay and trying to keep the peace. ⁣

My 𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 for you today is that you realize that your presence matters to those around you. That you have so much to offer by just being you.

You don't have to control everything to ensure it goes right. Let go of the things that aren't yours to control. Let go of the fear that comes with feeling it's yours to do.

Eights are the take-charge type. They aren't going to wait around for us to decide who's in charge, they're going to take charge and tell all of us who's in charge. Amirite??! Yep! ⁣

𝐁𝐮𝐭...type eights, you don't have to take responsibility for everyone and everything. Some things are going to be out of your control and that is just fine. Let go of those things. Don't hold on to them. They were never yours to start with. ⁣

Things will work out even if you don't take control. I encourage you to take a step back when you feel the need to jump in and take something over. You are such great leaders, let others have a chance to be in charge every once and a while.💜

Type Eights tell me in the comments, how does this feel to you? Do you feel you have no choice but to take charge?

Tag your favorite type eight if you aren't one!

Woot Woot, it's 𝐅𝐑𝐈𝐃𝐀𝐘!!
Hey, Type Sevens! This might be a hard one to swallow, but it's oh so good...⁣

𝘚𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘥𝘰𝘸𝘯. 𝘉𝘦 𝘚𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭. 𝘍𝘦𝘦𝘭...⁣

If you're making this face 😬I get it, I truly do (🙋🏽‍♀️6w7 wing here). ⁣

Although it can be really tough to slow down, maybe even miss out on some things you want to do, ultimately it's what you need. In order to grow into the person you can become, you have to do the work. And slowing down isn't all bad. ⁣

👀🗻Look for the adventure in slowing down, feeling some of those heavier emotions.

I encourage you to start slow, maybe journalling...sharing your real raw emotions with someone you trust.

Let's hear it type 7s. Is this something you dread? If you do this already, what gifts do you feel slowing down has given you. And as always, if you know a type seven, tag them here!!!

It's all about you today...or tonight. 😏⁣
As type sixes, we can vacillate between being courageous and wanting to run and hide...especially when there's a decision to be made.

𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯, 𝘐 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘐'𝘮 𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘰𝘯𝘦. ⁣

I can either make a decision instantaneously or it's going to take me a few weeks...or months.

No joke! Who's with me??? 🙋🏽‍♀️⁣

So type sixes I want to encourage you all...
- 𝙸𝚝'𝚜 𝚘𝚔𝚊𝚢 𝚝𝚘 𝚖𝚊𝚔𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚠𝚛𝚘𝚗𝚐 𝚍𝚎𝚌𝚒𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗.
- 𝙸𝚝'𝚜 𝚘𝚔𝚊𝚢 𝚒𝚏 𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚙𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚜 𝚍𝚘𝚗'𝚝 𝚐𝚘 𝚊𝚜 𝚙𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚗𝚎𝚍⁣
- 𝙸𝚝'𝚜 𝚘𝚔𝚊𝚢 𝚒𝚏 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚍𝚒𝚍𝚗'𝚝 𝚙𝚕𝚊𝚗 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝙰𝙻𝙻 𝚘𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚜𝚝-𝚌𝚊𝚜𝚎

𝑳𝒆𝒕 𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒍 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒉𝒚⤵⤵⤵⁣
Because 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝗪𝐈𝐋𝐋 𝐁𝐄 𝐎𝐊𝐀𝐘...You are braver and stronger than you think. Give yourself more credit!!! ⁣

Let's hear it, type sixes!
How does this make you feel? Feelin' a little anxious? Talk to me!
Tell me what you are feeling (yup, not thinking) in the comments.

And for those who are NOT a type six, support them and tag them here!! xoxo

𝐓𝐲𝐩𝐞 𝐅𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬 tend to want to gain lots of knowledge, learning as much as they can on a specific topic.
Fives often want to conserve their energy, thinking that they might run out if they do too many things. ⁣

𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘍𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴, take your love for learning and thirst for knowledge and channel that into an experience. Learn from the experience of doing something, rather than just reading about it. ⁣

Type Fives, is this something that feels scary to you? Why or why not?! If you aren't a type five, tag one that is. Let's learn as much as we can from them

I love learning about 𝐭𝐲𝐩𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. I want to be more like them, in touch with their feelings (for the most part), able to sit empathetically with others while they're suffering.

Type Fours, it's okay to feel those deeper, darker emotions.
𝐁𝐮𝐭, I would encourage you to feel, feel, feel, and then 𝘭𝘦𝘵 𝘨𝘰.

This isn't because your feelings are too much for us, it's because they can be too much for you. Free yourself from the need to feel everything to an extreme. ⁣

Fours, I want to hear from you. Let me know in the comments if this feels accurate. If you aren't a type four, tag one in the comments!!

𝘓𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘺𝘱𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘴.⁣⁣
You. are. not. your. image.
𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐌𝐎𝐑𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐍 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓!

Threes tend to over-identify with the image they project to get along in the world. Having an image of success and looking good to others is a way they can feel admired and worthwhile.
𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐬, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐨 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐲 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮. You are amazing at showing us what's possible, by coming beside us and helping us to succeed as well. ⁣⁣

𝘓𝘦𝘵 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯, 𝘭𝘦𝘵 𝘶𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱. It's okay to depend on others from time to time. ⁣⁣

Type threes, does this resonate with you? Tag a type three that you love and know needs to hear this!❤️

Type twos are so in-tune with how others are feeling, that they often put themselves last.
I want to encourage all of your type 2s to take the time to learn to love and accept yourself, as well as see yourself.

This is a tough one, but I know that you will be able to show up for others around you in a new way when you can do this for yourself as well. ⁣

Type twos, comment below about how this makes you feel? What comes up for you when you hear this? ⁣

For all others who know a type two, tag them here and share some encouragement with them.

Perfection is figuring out who you truly are and living freely from that place.

Type Ones often strive for perfection. They can be very hard on themselves and sometimes that leaks out onto others.

I want to encourage all the type ones out there that perfection comes from figuring out who you truly are, the person God made you to be.
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Then and only then will you find the freedom from the perfection you seek in yourself. ⁣

Type Ones, comment below if this resonated with you. If you know a type one, tag them here!!

How to grow as an Enneagram Type Nines:

Start to see yourself as the strong and capable person you truly are.
Be more decisive, it's okay to go against what others might want.
Set boundaries around your energy and keep them!

Subtypes for Enneagram Type Nine:

Self-preservation - This subtype wants to keep the peace. They can get lost in the crowd. This subtype needs to pay attention to themselves and check in with their anger.

Social - This subtype is usually a little more light-hearted and fun. They are definitely more energetic than the other nines and can sometimes look like a 3.

One-to-One - This subtype merges with another person as a way of forgetting their own needs and desires. They are often very relationship-oriented and can sometimes look like a 2 because of this.