09/30/2026
Do you believe that you are brave enough to be yourself in a room where it would be uncomfortable and likely alienating?
Do you always say what you actually think?
Are you bound by a need to please and not make anything inconvenient or difficult for anyone else- even if it is for you?
Well, obviously none of these things are difficult for me… Lol I have always told my mother that I was blessed with the gift of boldness.💃🏼
Although, I do and have edited parts of myself in the past… out of fear of being made fun of… We all do it.
I think we all believe if everyone knew all the awful things we believe about ourselves, they would think that we were terrible, no good, very bad, human beings!
I just shared a little bit in the video about my new business venture and the challenges that I face with my own need to over function and self imposed pressure!
I also have been thinking a lot about being a woman lately, and all of the unsaid, impositions put upon us to be so many versions of unrealistic, ,well put together, stepford wives. While always being beautiful, accommodating, and cheerfully hospitable..
I have found that when I get caught up in my human doing and not human being that, it doesn’t actually make me happy to complete or achieve the things I believe others value.
My commitment to myself with this second career, is to honor and keep promises to myself about the person I want to be.
I believe that work is an outlet for purpose, meaning, and genuine impact. I believe we make that impact best when we are our authentic selves.
I am working every day to improve and reveal the most authentic, embarrassing version of myself ..😂
I want to be that in every room I’m in. ..
I’m willing now, more than ever to be unliked, talked about, or judged.
It has become so much more important to me to live a fulfilling and beautiful life that aligns with my own values and passions.
This, I believe, is my only way to true happiness 💕
If any of you have any thoughts about anything I have shared or just about being in business as a woman or human 😊… I’d love to hear
Love y’all💋