10/02/2020
For the "Flashback Friday" today, I am sharing some thoughts concerning Parent-Teacher Conferences when discussing reading with a family of a struggling reader.
As we go into Parent-Teacher conferences in a few weeks, there are some phrases that are not helpful when discussing dyslexia. Some of these phrases contain misconceptions, such as number 1 and 6 since dyslexia is not something that "goes away" but rather people learn compensation skills. Additionally, number 4 can be one of the most difficult for people to understand as those dyslexic students are often the students working the hardest in the classroom. Here is a list of what to say that differs from this list:
1. As your child matures, they will learn skills to assist them with this different type of processing.
2. Spelling may be difficult for your child, but there are strategies they can learn and often it helps a dyslexic child to learn the "rules" behind spelling to help with this.
3. Many children feel a sense of relief when they have a name to why they struggle to read or spell.
4. Your child is so smart and works so hard.
5. A dyslexic child's listening comprehension is usually very strong, so continue reading out loud and reading with your child for this enjoyment. Often children enjoy listening to audio books as well.
6. I know people who are dyslexic.
7. Colored overlays have been a misconception associated with dyslexia, however there are conditions where colored overlays are helpful.
8. There is a high co-morbidity rate with dyslexia and ADD/ADHD, but it does not necessarily mean that they cause one another as they are two separate conditions.
9. There are many types of dyslexia and it is important to know that the different types can impact a variety of literacy areas.
10. The school is working to teach your child to read, however there needs to be specialized instruction that is explicit and structured in literacy.
11. Dyslexia is not just about "seeing things backwards," but rather a different way that the brain is processing literacy skills.
12. Dyslexia is an unexpected difficulty in reading so it can be surprising given other information about the child that they would struggle with reading.
13. Every parent needs to be aware of how they can advocate for their child's education.
14. I know it has taken a lot to get your child to the benchmark and there can be a concern about regression or the work it will take to make the next benchmark. This is a celebration of where they are now and we will continue to work for the next levels as well.
15. Your child is working hard and we can provide accommodations and modifications in order to gain equal access to the curriculum.