08/05/2026
I listened to a podcast this morning that fired me up enough that I've got to share it with y'all.
It was the Becoming Something Podcast from Harris Creek Church with guest Jon Eckert talking about The Happiness Crisis.
The conversation started by talking about the difference between happiness and joy, and it hit me right between the eyes.
We live in a culture that's obsessed with "do what makes you happy." We spend so much of our time trying to make life easier, smoother, and more comfortable for our kids.
But joy? Joy isn't found without friction. Hello, frustration resistance! 👋
This keeps coming up, and I don't think that's by accident.
The podcast talks about raising what they call "gritty optimists." Kids who can look at a problem, imagine a solution, and keep working toward it. Kids who become more joyful because of what they've overcome, not because they've been protected from every hard thing.
"The depth of the struggle determines the peak of the joy."
Whoo... that'll preach.
As a school, we're talking about this a lot. How do we build capable kids? Kids who can persevere, solve problems, serve others, and trust God when things don't go the way they planned?
I have a feeling this conversation is only just beginning.
Jon Eckert's new book, The Happiness Crisis, released today, and I already know it's next on my reading list.
Would anyone be interested in doing another book study together this fall like we did with The Anxious Generation a few years ago? Parents, grandparents, educators... anyone who wants to raise joyful, capable kids is welcome!
If you're in, let me know below. I have a feeling this one is going to spark some really good conversations. 💛