Positive behaviour support- Guernsey

01/31/2023

All behaviour is communication - Would you like support with understanding what your child is trying to say to you with their behaviour? I am happy to help you , feel free to get in touch 🙂 IBC

11/24/2022

Something to consider…

11/23/2022

I can help you with understanding your child’s “storm” as well as learn how to be calm and “in control” So we can all have positive outcomes that we can learn from :)
Get in touch! :)

11/22/2022

When your child is upset…

10/04/2022

“Give it to me now, I want it now!!”
“If you don’t give it to me I’m gonna break this”

Sounds familiar??

One very tricky situation to deal with… especially when we are emotionally charged.

I can help you with this or any other “tricky” situations. I can provide you with the tools you need so we can turn tricky situations into situations with positives outcomes for you and your child 🙂

Feel free to contact me, I’m here to help 🙂
IBC

10/01/2022

"I would never speak to my mum/dad like that!- what am I doing wrong!"

The world has changed since we were little; the strategies that we use today have to be different.

If you would like to find out how I can help you understanding your child's behaviour and discuss some simple strategies that you can put in place from day one, please get in touch!

I am here to help :)
IBC

09/26/2022

Do you feel like your child doesn't listen to you anymore?
Do you have to repeat yourself over and over and you only get things done only if you loose your temper?
Do you feel like you want to scream because "they don't listen to me anymore"?

If you identify with any of those situations (and more), feel free to get in touch! :)

I am here to help! IBC

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07/17/2022

If you're feeling like you're fighting a losing battle or need direction in your parenting to get things back on track, I can help you do that. And it will benefit the whole family! I have 20 years of experience working with children with a variety of emotional and behavioural needs, including Autism, ADHD and SEMH. I approach all behaviour as a function of communication and areas where skills are lacking or lagging. I believe (and have seen countless times) that children do better when they can. Often as a result of parents making small but important shifts in their understanding and perception.
IBC

12/01/2021

Furious vs Curious

Having been a teacher for many years, I know first-hand how difficult it is to be restrained and resilient when confronted with challenging behaviour.

It demands huge amounts of self-control and a truck loadda love!

Part of the challenge is that it can be hard to see the vulnerability of a child in the midst of a difficult exchange.

While we may not have control over what children say to us, we have control over what we say to them in response.

Learn to be curious, rather than furious.
What might the child be saying through the behaviour?
What might the child need from you?

Questions worth pondering...

IBC

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11/14/2021

Parenting effectively is about understanding a child's brain development, knowing what development stages your child is at,
as well as understanding what is happening during certain situations within the brain.

It's about using strategies that impact in the moment, to make parenting easier, along with the strategies that will equip our children to become happy, confident and resilient for the rest of their lives.

We do not live in the same world our parents did and we certainly cannot use the same strategies our parents used.
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If you need support, get in touch to get a feel for how I can help you:
1-1 support for parents- Problem solving sessions
Individual assessment- Individual plan- 1:1 interventions

Thank you,
IBC