09/09/2024
This year, celebrating my 38th in the Catskills was the perfect backdrop for reflection, and I'd like to share a few thoughts on the past year and what's inspiring me as I move forward.
It's been a year of saying "yes" to big goals while making sure life stays fun—navigating that elusive balance between pushing forward and enjoying the ride.
In the process, we doubled our business, helped 38 families (so far) navigate college apps, welcomed 600+ students to our workshops, and even shot our first ads on Yale's campus.
But it wasn't all work—true to my role as the self-appointed CFO (Chief Fun Officer), we squeezed in two engagement parties, rocked out at an Avett Brothers concert, and hit the road again with our van-life adventures. I even spent a month in the Azores, Portugal, working on my motivation book for teens (turns out, there's no better editor than a good ocean breeze).
What really stood out was rediscovering the joy of rewriting my own story, just like I guide my students to do with theirs.
Students often come to me feeling like their essay topics—or even their lives—lack a compelling story. But once we start writing, they find there's more to their story than they initially thought.
Here are three life lessons that stand out from this year:
1. Progress isn't pretty. The key is to get moving, even when things feel unfinished.
2. Know when to pivot: Have the courage to change course. Whether it's shelving an essay draft that's not flowing or rethinking a business offering that doesn't provide enough value, real growth comes from letting go.
3. Digest your wins: I'm naturally a nitpicker (the editor in me), but this year, I'm learning to appreciate my wins, big and small.
I pull in these lessons with students as we look for the real, honest moments in their essays.
I'm so grateful that my work with families goes far beyond applying to college. Thank you for letting me be a part of it.
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I've grown to love reading your notes and feedback each year.
I'll read every one.
With gratitude,
Kate