Ashleylivinginchaos

Part 4 of chatting with you and trying to clarify and answer as many questions as I can.

Part 1 of chatting with you and trying to clarify and answer as many questions as I can.

Part 2 of chatting with you and trying to clarify and answer as many questions as I can.

Part 1 of chatting with you and trying to clarify and answer as many questions as I can. This ended up being very long so I broke it up but trust me I’m uploading them all at once as fast as I can.

I understand why they have these standards in place it is so common for someone to not be as far along as they think and see a viable pregnancy the next ultrasound, however, in this case it is an impossibility for this to be a viable pregnancy.

It feels incredibly cruel to make me go 2 more times for ultrasounds to see an empty sac when I’m already grieving just to be able to get the medical intervention I need.

It feels cruel to feel pregnant and awful for 3 more weeks when there’s no baby. My body is not understanding my hcg is basically stagnant and I have no idea when I will naturally miscarry. It could be next week on vacation or my body could never get the hint and I’ll need the 2 ultrasounds and dnc.

We are heartbroken over this loss and miscarriage care shouldn’t be like this 💔