04/18/2019
Focus: Reconciliation To One Another
Day #27 of Lent
Lesson 3: Reconciling The Sin Of Others In Church
Old Testament Scripture Reading: Genesis 4:8, 9
New Testament Scripture Reading: Matthew 18:15-20
The ministry of reconciliation within the church encompasses more than conflicts of misunderstanding or emotional wrongs. It also addresses the important matter of reconciling a brother or sister discovered in sin. The purpose of this reconciliation is restoring to right standing before God and the church the one found guilty of sin.
Jesus provides us a clearly defined path of reconciliation. First, the one who observes their brother or sister in sin or in the suspicion of sin has the primary responsibility of confronting the sinning party in love and concern for their standing. They are to “go and point out their fault, just between the two of them.” If received in humility and repentance of sin, the matter is ended.
Second, if the observer of the sin is not received or rebuked, he/she should take one or two others to address the offense. Again the response of the offender dictates whether further action is necessary. The matter ends here, if the offender confesses and repents.
Third, in the event the offender is not responsive, the matter is to be addressed by the church at large. While there is not complete clarity on how that looks in a contemporary setting, the intent is to remove any shadow of misunderstanding on the part of the church body and to confidently establish there has been fault of sin and the availability of forgiveness.
Regardless, at each level the objective is the restoration of the offender. If all efforts fail to reconsecrate the offender, an isolation of formal or organizational fellowship or embrace must ensue. Even in these actions of excommunication the goal is restoration.
The bottom line of Jesus’ teaching is that we are our brothers keeper. If one goes missing, each one of us must respond according to the instruction of Jesus. Jesus is not willing than any should perish and neither should we.
Prayer: “Lord, remove the heart of judgment in me and grant to me the heart of reconciliation. Help me to keep a pure heart in every potential situation relative to the work of restoration.”
Raina Owens Brafford