Veronica Monet's Shame Free Zone

09/25/2026

💍 Does consent stop mattering once you're committed?
Nope. Not even a little. 🙅‍♀️
✨ You can want it sometimes and not others.
✨ A partner who can hear "not tonight" is a partner worth keeping.
💬 Have you ever said no to someone you love... and it went well?
Tell me what made that possible 👇

09/24/2026

🧊 "Why didn't I scream? Why didn't I run?"
I hear this question more than almost any other.
Freezing is not weakness. ❌
It's one of the most common responses there is.
Your body made a call when it had no good options. 💜
If you've carried shame about it... you can put it down now. 🤍
💬 What would you say to the version of you who froze?

09/23/2026

Drunk S*x vs Assault: The Real Line

I have been sober for 41 years, and here I tell a story many women never tell. I explains the difference between drunk s*x and s*xual assault, what happened the night i was unconscious, and how police treated survivors back then. The law has changed. Has the way people think about it changed too? Share if you think this conversation matters.

Support is available 24/7 through www.wannatalkaboutit.com

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*xualassaultawareness

09/23/2026

Do you truly comprehend the concept of 'Informed Consent'? Swipe to discover 3 misconceptions surrounding this critical topic.

09/23/2026

🍷 Does a "yes" still count after a few drinks?
So many of you have asked me this quietly.
Here's what I want you to know 👇
It depends. How drunk do a few drinks make you?
🎥 My new video is up on YouTube now.
💬 What did you grow up believing about drinking and consent?

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09/19/2026

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There's a grey area most people never talk about. Someone isn't passed out. They aren't blacked out. They technically said yes. But their judgment was compromised and deep down you knew they'd probably regret it. This is the consent conversation worth having with yourself, honestly and without shame.

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09/18/2026

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Consent and alcohol: if someone is too drunk to make a clear decision, they can't give consent, even if they said yes.

So many survivors carry shame because they had been drinking. I want you to hear this clearly. Choosing to drink is never choosing to be harmed. When a person is incapacitated by alcohol, the responsibility sits with the one who went ahead anyway. Laws vary by state, but the principle doesn't.

Support is available 24/7 through www.wannatalkaboutit.com

09/16/2026

What makes a choice empowering? For me, it was the healing I did first. I spent years in therapy, years sober and seven years at desk jobs before choosing s*x work. I had options, and I picked the one that sounded exciting and paid fast. Both turned out to be true. Here's my honest story about trauma recovery, choice and rewriting the beliefs I grew up with.



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09/16/2026

Most of the abuse of children in this country does not happen in a mansion or on an island. It happens at home, by someone the child loves. Sixty eight percent of child s*xual abuse. I keep saying that number because the world keeps looking somewhere else. If you were hurt by family, you are the majority, not the exception.

09/15/2026

Healing from childhood s*xual abuse means naming the beliefs that were planted in us. For me, it was the idea that my worth came from pleasing men. Here's where my story of recovery begins.

Sources -
https://www.childprotect.org/facts-about-child-abuse.html #:~:text
https://www.wannatalkaboutit.com/

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