11/10/2022
THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR SUPPORTING THE CAMPAIGNS OF Trent Taylor and Cameron Zbikowski for Grandville School Board. It was a close race, and we came up a little bit short. I have said all along that I would rather lose with integrity than win without it. While I was hoping that would not come to pass, I accept the final election results. Congratulations to Bob Wondergem and Joe Steffes on their victory. Congratulations also to Erica Abel for running a clean campaign and making a good showing.
Biggest congratulations to Cameron Zbikowski for showing incredible grace under fire, though we should have expected nothing less from a Navy veteran. This election set a new low for decorum in the local Grandville political scene, and Cam certainly bore the brunt of it. Yet throughout being slandered, falsely accused and threatened by PAC pit bulls, radio hosts and cult leaders masquerading as ministers, Cam kept his cool. I was proud to run with him as a co-candidate, and I am proud to have him as a friend. He would be great on the school board. Just great. I may never understand how someone who successfully sponsors a bill through both houses of Congress and is signed into law by the President of the United States is blocked from winning a local school board election.
Thank you to my best friend and wife Wendy for putting up with what amounted to a 500 hour frolic in politics for me. In addition to running the farm and driving the kids, on top of her three jobs, she was an invaluable social media advisor to me, technical guru, and sounding board for my thoughts and ideas. Wendy, I love you very much. Thank you for who you are and for what you have done. The truth of the matter is, I garnered many votes and donations because of you and what you have done in the community. You are smart, passionate, beautiful, caring and selfless. I hope that our girls grow up to be just like you.
Thank you to my sweet, beautiful and independent girls, Braylon, Erin and Lane, for supporting me in this campaign, particularly for your words of encouragement when you found out while at school yesterday that my apparent victory had been reversed. Erin and Lane, I was selfishly hoping to hand you your diplomas when you graduate in 2024 and 2026, like Grandpa handed my diploma to me. They say you can’t choose your kids, but I would have chosen all of you.
Thank you to my girls’ teachers for helping them through yesterday and for your support of this campaign. My girls conveyed your expressions of disappointment to me last night – your thoughts mean a lot to me. Thank you to a majority of the current school board for cheering me on in this endeavor. Thank you to Mayor Maas for his strong support and to the members of the Grandville City Council who stood up to be counted. Thank you to my loyal friends and donors all across the political spectrum who funded this campaign. I am sorry that we could not bring home a victory.
Last, enormous thanks to my new and wonderful friends at SOS Grandville for making this campaign possible. This effort would have been impossible without you. I desperately wanted to win for all of you and make you proud. I hope that I accomplished half of that.
I have learned a lot during this campaign. I have learned that we have an incredibly large and diverse district, with 12% minority student representation and at least 30 different languages spoken. I have learned that the economic disparity in the district is stark; life is not fair throughout the world, and life is not fair throughout Grandville. I have learned to approach interactions with people with a blank page, without preconceived opinions of the person opening the door. I was able to find common ground with anyone willing to listen to me. If we listen, we can understand; if we understand, we can communicate; if we communicate, we can build trust; if we can build trust, we can build a relationship. Maybe that relationship is a friendship, a civil agreement to disagree, or a peaceful coexistence. All of those represent progress in my mind. The parable of the Good Samaritan asks us “who was the good neighbor?” As that story tells us, anyone can be a good neighbor. Everyone can be a good neighbor.
Most of all, I learned that social media is an incredibly effective yet incredibly dangerous tool. It is effective in that it enables us to quickly find lots of “friends” with common interests and common thinking. However, when we limit our interactions to those in our friend groups, everyone else in the world quickly becomes our adversaries, whether intended or not. And when we limit interactions with our adversaries to social media or other forums not conducive to dialogue – such as public comment periods at school board meetings – we turn our divides into chasms. Think about it – does anyone ever apologize or make amends with someone on social media or during a public comment period? No. Those are terrible forums for remedying disputes.
Instead, we need to build bridges face to face, as is done by world leaders at peace summits. In Grandville, reasonable people from both sides need to sit down, face to face, with a willingness to listen to one another. If the two sides don’t extend olive branches to each other, we will find ourselves in this same or worse position in 2024. If that happens, the school district, the students and our greater community will be the losers.
I leave you with the lyrics to “One Tin Soldier” – a 1960s anti-war song. The words are haunting when read in the context of this election. When you read it, remind yourself that one of the treasures we have in this community and this country is public education.
Listen children to a story
That was written long ago
About a kingdom on a mountain
And the valley folk below
On the mountain was a treasure
Buried deep beneath a stone
And the valley people swore
They'd have it for their very own
Go ahead and hate your neighbor
Go ahead and cheat a friend
Do it in the name of Heaven
You can justify it in the end
There won't be any trumpets blowing
Come the judgment day
On the bloody morning after
One tin soldier rides away
So the people of the valley
Sent a message up the hill
Asking for the buried treasure
Tons of gold for which they'd kill
Came an answer from the kingdom
With our brothers we will share
All the secrets of our mountain
All the riches buried there
Now the valley cried with anger
Mount your horses, draw your sword
And they killed the mountain people
So they won their just reward
Now they stood beside the treasure
On the mountain dark and red
Turn the stone and which beneath it
Peace on earth was all it said
Go ahead and hate your neighbor
Go ahead and cheat a friend
Do it in the name of Heaven
You can justify it in the end
There won’t be any trumpets blowing
Come the judgement day
On the bloody morning after
One tin soldier rides away