Happy & Whole with Nichole

Happy & Whole with Nichole I empower women to heal their inner child & limiting beliefs & learn how to love themselves & be free

I recently had to drive through a massive storm to get to a doctor's appointment over an hour away. Along the drive ther...
11/27/2023

I recently had to drive through a massive storm to get to a doctor's appointment over an hour away.

Along the drive there was a lot of construction and delays.

I saw power go out in an area as I drove past with rain and lightning…

I passed 2 different towers that were the source of electricity…

I usually pass by these towers without even noticing them…

But yesterday it struck me like lightning ⛈️, probably because the rain was coming down so hard…

These power towers were so important to our daily living, yet most of us never pay attention to them unless they aren’t working!

When this happens we get mad and do everything possible to fix it asap!

We get annoyed and inconvenienced and call the power company to FIX it NOW.

It made me think of how I feel when I’m in alignment and connected with my higher self/the universe, versus when the storms beat down on & I feel powerless or helpless.

When I am tuned in and feeling connected to my power, I feel unstoppable and fiercely confident in who I am and what I offer this world.

Not every day is like that for me.

Many times I wake up feeling “off.”

On those days I feel disconnected, even when I try to meditate and do grounding exercises, or journaling.

I don’t like those days.

I judge them as “bad” days.

But, they serve a purpose and in hindsight I recognize the “good” in even the “bad” days and things.

When we have our power taken from us, we feel emotions we don’t like. We judge them and ourselves for feeling a certain way.

We blame it on others and demand they FIX it right away…

We try to control the situation or change it…

Because it is uncomfortable to sit with what is and to accept it.

But when we do, we find the magic in even the darkest corners without power…

Because we remember that ALL ALONG, the power has not been “out there”...

our source of power comes from within.

We were born with it.

It never disconnects or dies…

It is simply covered up by the rubble of years of programming and listening to outside sources who tell us we need to look, be, or behave a certain way in order to belong or to succeed or to have the things we desire.

So we jump from program to program, we pay for books and courses and coaches to help us reconnect with our power…

But most coaches have a “proven formula” that has worked for them, but may or may not work for you…

I know because I’ve forgotten my power more times than I’d like to count, and I’ve relied on coaches, psychics, books, and others to help me…

And many of their tools and techniques have helped…

But when I step away from all the noise and tune into my SOUL and my inner knowing, I remember, that just like Dorothy on the Wizard of Oz, I have had the power within me all along!

I don’t need the wizard, who is often a fraud who’s simply really good at marketing and creating a compelling illusion, to fix me…

Because I don’t need fixed.

I simply need to remember my own power.

That is when I can show up and shine my brightest, no longer fearing what others may think of me…

Braving the wilderness and exclusion or fear that comes up and knowing that no matter what happens, I have my own back! I am here for ME and to BE FREE…

If you haven’t seen yet, my husband and I are hosting a FREE 5 Day Bootcamp: The Journey Within, to help others find the same kind of bliss and freedom we now enjoy. We would love to invite you to join us and remember how to tap into your own power so you can feel deep peace and safety from within.

You can join us here: https://go.chooseanamazinglife.com/5daybootcamp

Fun fact: when you support a small biz owner, you support a HUMAN who has big dreams and has created something to try to...
11/26/2023

Fun fact: when you support a small biz owner, you support a HUMAN who has big dreams and has created something to try to pay the bills, support their kids, And BLESS OTHERS.

Starting a business is drastically harder than most people seem to think. It takes a lot of trial and error, tons of passion to keep going when the going gets rough, and a bunch a support...

Because like it or not, NONE OF US can grow a business without the help of other people...

People like you and me, supporting our friends, families, and strangers, with the things they put out there...

Because, while we might be able to get it cheaper at Walmart or some big store, the smiles and help we give some entrepreneur on the internet is infinitely more fun.

If you'd like to support yourself better, learn to love who you are (remember your worth), and really tune in to your inner wholeness, you'll want to check out the offers I've got going that will end very soon: https://go.chooseanamazinglife.com/BlackFridayDeals23

There's still time to get my books for just $10 or less...There's still time to learn how to create geode and ocean art ...
11/25/2023

There's still time to get my books for just $10 or less...

There's still time to learn how to create geode and ocean art masterpieces with your own hands...

You can still take advantage of my special 1-1 coaching offer or my online "Stressed to Blessed" course...

and you can even get 40% off all my art and more!

I really hope it serves you! Check out all my Black Friday offers Here: https://go.chooseanamazinglife.com/BlackFridayDeals23

It's bright and early on Black Friday Morn...I've got some deals that'll toot your horn...If you like books, courses, co...
11/24/2023

It's bright and early on Black Friday Morn...

I've got some deals that'll toot your horn...

If you like books, courses, coaching, or art...

I hope you find something that lights up your 💖!

Find deals here: https://go.chooseanamazinglife.com/BlackFridayDeals23

11/24/2023

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Happy Thanksgiving! 🦃May your turkey be BIG, your stomach feel satisfied, your home be full of love, and your life feel ...
11/23/2023

Happy Thanksgiving! 🦃

May your turkey be BIG, your stomach feel satisfied, your home be full of love, and your life feel good today and every day.

This is always a special time of year to reflect on the things and people who brings us joy and for whom we feel grateful.

Today I'd like to express my gratitude for YOU.

YEP, if you're reading this it's because for one reason or another you are in my world and I'm in yours...

and I don't take that for granted.

You are special to me, even if I've never met you in person...

I love you and want the best for you.

I want you to feel deeply loved, cared for, supported, and cherished.

And, because I've been coaching and doing the inner work for many years now, I KNOW that all of those feelings start WITHIN.

For that reason, my husband and I (who are celebrating 21 years of marriage TODAY), have created a fun free 5 day bootcamp, called The Journey Within...

In five days, we will help you find whatever limiting beliefs may be holding you back or keeping you stuck in a life, and to diagnose the root cause of the "issues" that create feelings of lack, drama, heartache, and pain...

We want you to feel deep inner peace and joy, and that is an INSIDE job...

We can show you how to do it.

Join us for The Journey Within Free 5 Day Bootcamp here: https://go.chooseanamazinglife.com/5daybootcamp

Tomorrow is our 21st Anniversary.On Thanksgiving.Boo, lol. I don't like it when two important events land on the same da...
11/22/2023

Tomorrow is our 21st Anniversary.

On Thanksgiving.

Boo, lol.

I don't like it when two important events land on the same day.

It makes it harder to focus on just one thing...

My husband's birthday is on Valentines Day and I always felt a little bad for him, (and for me) because of it...

But, we've made it work now for 21 years, so it obviously wasn't a deal breaker for me, lol.

We have opted to get away together on Friday, while the masses of people deck the halls and shop the malls, we will be on a private airbnb, enjoying some peace and quiet (without any wifi or other humans!).

Twenty-one years with the same person is pretty remarkable.

I know many couples don't make it this far...

And many make it much further...

But comparing our journey to others is not important...

We each have different journeys in life and ours has been nothing short of miraculous!

When you consider that the greater percentage of couples who experience hard things together break up, we are quite impressed that after leaving our high demand religion, losing all of our grandparents and both our dads, moving over 10 times, living on a single student loan, facing several major health issues and then losing our daughter...

Nate and I are stronger than ever.

Our marriage is pretty fabulous, if I say so myself.

We have open lines of communication about everything. We are emotionally and physically intimate and connected... still find him super attractive after all these years.

We have fun together. We regularly go on dates and try new things. I am so grateful to have been able to share the last 21 years of my life with my best friend.

We truly love each other without conditions and it's been a fun and hard journey.

It hasn't always been easy either.

In fact, we have come close to calling it quits a few times.

I used to have massive fear of him cheating on me or leaving me...

I used to worry about so many things...

I was super insecure and always afraid he'd find someone better or prettier...

All of that changed when I started working on myself and healing my inner wounds.

When I learned to love and accept myself and to find myself attractive, my worries started to disappear.

Not only did I feel safe and happy in my own skin, even despite chronic pain and some major weight gain...

But the more confident I felt, the more my man seemed to be attracted to me, and the more he also healed his inner child.

Together and alone, we each did the inner work that allowed us to hold space for each other when the hard things happened.

We learned to love ourselves without conditions, so that we could love each other without needing to change or fix anything.

All the hard things we've gone through were made easier because we could allow each other the support, love, time, and space needed to heal at our own pace and in our own way.

Four years ago we launched a free challenge called, The Journey Within, where we helped people gain greater self-awareness and happiness...

I'm happy to announce we are opening it up for another round in less than two weeks!

If you want to have better relationships, health, deep inner peace, and true lasting joy, join us for The Journey Within 5 Day Bootcamp here: https://go.chooseanamazinglife.com/5daybootcamp

Sometimes all you want is for someone else to step up and SEE that you need help…I mean, isn’t it OBVIOUS? You’re sittin...
11/22/2023

Sometimes all you want is for someone else to step up and SEE that you need help…

I mean, isn’t it OBVIOUS?

You’re sitting there helping one of your kids with homework, thinking of the massive to-do list that you once again will NOT finish, hoping you won’t burn dinner (again) and thinking about how much sleep you need.

You’re not sleeping well because you keep doing all the things for everyone else BUT you, and you feel like you’re failing at everything in life.

You wish your partner would buck up and volunteer to take the kids somewhere and give you a much needed break…

But instead they’re getting upset because there are dishes still in the sink or the floor isn’t mopped or the bills aren’t all paid, etc etc.

You’re thinking, “WHY DON'T YOU DO IT ALL THEN???”

But you don’t dare say anything because the second you actually do, might be the second you fall apart completely and can’t hold yourself together anymore.

You’re juggling too many things…

Things that don’t light you up or make you excited in any way…

Yet you can’t say NO because that would mean you’re:

Not a good mom

Not doing enough to help out the community

A failure…

And we can’t have anyone think that now can we???

Although deep down that’s our worst fear…

Because deep deep down we feel like an imposter…

A fake…

A phony…

And we are hoping that all of our efforts to feed the team, make ends meet, be the perfect wife and mom and sister and friend…

are fooling other people because

It’s TOO HARD to admit we need help…

It’s too scary to ask someone else to do something we desperately don’t want to do but we’ve allowed it on our to-do list…

It’s all too much…

Yet we keep doing it and getting mad at ourselves for not saying no and not knowing how to make and keep boundaries.

We are trying to be the strong one, but feel as if we could literally unravel and burst into tears or melt in someone’s arms if they only knew!

It’s hard being the strong one…

The glue holding it together for everyone else, but feeling weaker every day.

We can only spread ourselves so thin or run on fumes for so long…

Sooner or later something will happen to “break us”...

Usually a health scare, a death or some other trauma that wakes us up.

I am here to tell you waiting until something bad happens before we change is not serving the greater good…

Constantly pouring from an empty cup isn’t helping as much as you hope it could…

Mama, you’ve got to refill your cup and be SELFISH.

Yep, I said that.

Selfishness has gotten a bad rap over the years, but honestly, when we are selfish enough to fill our own cup or put our own oxygen mask on before helping others, it is an act of public service!

We then show up filled up and can pour from our overflow without feeling depleted.

If you are sick and tired of being taken advantage of, and of feeling like a failure despite the endless hours of servitude…

My FREE Bootcamp: The Journey Within, will help you get to the root of why you feel less than or feel the need to people please, and will help you free your inner child to show up and help you feel happier, more energetic and filled up, so you not only feel whole again, but LIKE, no scratch that, LOVE the life you live.

Join for free today, we start December 4th. https://go.chooseanamazinglife.com/5daybootcamp

Did You Hear???I've launched my B. Friday deals EARLY!I've got books, courses, coaching, art, and even a water carafe al...
11/21/2023

Did You Hear???

I've launched my B. Friday deals EARLY!

I've got books, courses, coaching, art, and even a water carafe all for you!

Get them before the crazy rush, so you can rest and relax, knowing you got the best bang for your 🦌. See comments for link.

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