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10/07/2026

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GET CURIOUS ABOUT THE CONTRADICTION“I really want an A.”…but the review guide is blank.“I hate being late.”…but the back...
10/07/2026

GET CURIOUS ABOUT THE CONTRADICTION

“I really want an A.”

…but the review guide is blank.

“I hate being late.”

…but the backpack still isn’t packed.

“I know I need to start earlier.”

…but the assignment is untouched until 10:30 p.m.

“I want to get into that college.”

…but the application keeps sitting unopened.

This is where adults can get frustrated fast.

Because from the outside, the contradiction looks obvious:

If it matters to you…why aren’t you doing it?

But executive function is often exactly where WANTING and DOING stop matching neatly.

A student can care deeply and still struggle to:

• get started without urgency
• hold multiple steps in mind
• estimate how long something will take
• shift away from something more immediately rewarding
• figure out where to begin
• recover once they already feel behind
• translate a future goal into what needs to happen today

That doesn’t mean we ignore the missing work.

It means we get curious before we assign meaning to it.

Instead of:

“You keep saying you care, but your choices say otherwise.”

Try:

“You really want this outcome, and getting started hasn’t been happening. What do you think is getting in the way?”

Or:

“Where does this usually break down for you — deciding, starting, staying with it, or finishing?”

Or even:

“You knew this needed to happen. What did your brain do when it was time to begin?”

That last question can tell us A LOT.

Maybe the task felt too big.

Maybe the directions weren’t clear.

Maybe the student was waiting for urgency.

Maybe there was no obvious first step.

Maybe they genuinely thought, “I’ll do it later,” and later disappeared.

Maybe they don’t know yet.

That’s information too.

The contradiction is not always proof that a student doesn’t care.

Sometimes it is the clearest clue we have about where support is needed.

And this is where teachers and parents can do something really powerful:

Notice the gap without immediately filling it with judgment.

Then ask:

“What would make the next step more doable?”

That is where scaffolding begins.

Not by removing expectations.

By understanding what is standing between intention and action.

That gap?

That’s often where executive function coaching lives.

If you know a student who genuinely wants something but keeps struggling to make their actions line up with the goal, that is exactly the kind of pattern worth getting curious about. www.efcoach.org

This morning I spent Career Day with groups of middle schoolers talking about executive function. I barely had to explai...
10/06/2026

This morning I spent Career Day with groups of middle schoolers talking about executive function. I barely had to explain what I meant when I described those moments when your brain seems to betray what you intended to do. They knew. And when I asked for examples, the examples came quickly.

That was a good reminder: sometimes students don’t need us to tell them what’s happening first. They need us to give them a way to notice it.

PREDICT BEFORE YOU PERFORM

Yesterday we talked about asking before we explain.

Today, let’s give students something even more powerful to do with that thinking:

Make a prediction.

“How long do you think this will take?”

“Which part do you think will be hardest?”

“How many do you think you can finish in ten minutes?”

“What do you think will happen if you study it this way?”

“Which strategy do you think will work best?”

Why does this matter?

Because prediction gives the brain something to NOTICE.

A student predicts an assignment will take 15 minutes.

It takes 42.

That moment can easily become:

“See? This is why you need to manage your time better.”

But what if instead we asked:

“You thought 15. It took 42. What do you think made the difference?”

Now we’re not just talking about time management.

We’re practicing it.

The student is comparing expectation with reality.

Noticing what slowed things down.

Thinking about what they might change next time.

That’s metacognition.

That’s flexible thinking.

That’s executive function happening in real time.

And the prediction does not need to be right to be useful.

Sometimes the mismatch is where the best learning happens.

Prediction → Experience → Notice → Adjust

Teachers can use this before a writing assignment, lab, test review, independent work block or group project.

Parents can borrow it before homework, getting ready for practice, cleaning a room or packing for the next day.

Not as a gotcha.

As an experiment.

Try one today:

“What does your brain think will happen?”

Then let reality give you both something to talk about.

If this series makes you think of a teacher who loves helping students become more independent thinkers, send it their way.

Yesterday we talked about dopamine, norepinephrine, and why ADHD is more complicated than one “motivation chemical.”Impo...
10/06/2026

Yesterday we talked about dopamine, norepinephrine, and why ADHD is more complicated than one “motivation chemical.”

Important?

Absolutely.

But here’s the part that matters even more:

Change takes more than awareness.

Knowing that ADHD affects attention, motivation and Executive Function is only useful if it changes what we do next.

So when a student says:

“I know I need to do it. I just can’t get myself to start.”

Awareness says:

🧠 “That can be part of ADHD.”

Understanding says:

🧠 “Starting a task requires Executive Function not just caring about the outcome.”

Support says:

💡 “Let’s make the first step easier to access.”

Maybe that means:

→ opening the assignment together
→ deciding what “done” looks like
→ choosing just the first action
→ moving the phone
→ putting the materials in sight
→ working beside someone for five minutes
→ making the deadline or time available visible

None of those things remove accountability.

They provide just enough support for the student to get traction.

And that distinction matters.

Because ADHD support should not become:

❌ doing everything for a student
❌ lowering every expectation
❌ rescuing them from every uncomfortable task

But it also should not be:

❌ “You know what to do.”
❌ “You just need to try harder.”
❌ “You'll figure it out eventually.”

There is a whole lot of room between **rescuing** and **leaving a student alone with a skill they cannot yet access consistently.**

That space is called scaffolding.

And good scaffolding has a destination: independence.

We support enough for success today...

while helping the student notice, practice and eventually own the strategies that make success more likely tomorrow.

That is what ADHD awareness can become when we move beyond simply knowing the diagnosis.

Awareness → Understanding → Support → Ownership

This month, don't just learn more about ADHD.
Let what you learn change the way you respond.

🧠 ADHD AWARENESS MONTHDopamine gets all the attention.Norepinephrine would like a word.Spend five minutes on social medi...
10/05/2026

🧠 ADHD AWARENESS MONTH

Dopamine gets all the attention.

Norepinephrine would like a word.

Spend five minutes on social media and you might come away believing:

ADHD = not enough dopamine.

It's catchy.

It's also much too simple.

ADHD involves differences in the development and regulation of brain networks that help us direct attention, inhibit responses, hold information in mind, regulate effort, respond to rewards and move toward goals.

And those networks communicate using multiple chemical messenger systems.

Two of the most important in ADHD research are:

🟠 DOPAMINE

Dopamine participates in reward learning, motivation, salience, movement, working memory and deciding what is important enough for the brain to act on.

But dopamine isn't simply the brain's “motivation chemical.”

And ADHD isn't simply a tank running around on LOW DOPAMINE.

Research supports altered dopamine signaling as part of ADHD neurobiology but scientists do not have evidence that every person with ADHD simply has too little dopamine.

🟦 NOREPINEPHRINE

This one doesn't get nearly as much TikTok airtime.

But norepinephrine plays an important role in:

• alertness and arousal
• focusing attention
• filtering distraction
• working memory
• cognitive flexibility
• helping the prefrontal cortex regulate behavior

In very simplified terms, dopamine and norepinephrine help the brain decide:

What matters right now?
What should I pay attention to?
What do I need to hold onto?
What should I ignore?
And can I keep directing myself toward the goal?

Sound familiar?

Those are Executive Function demands.

And there's another layer.

Scientists are also investigating the roles of other signaling systems—including serotonin, glutamate and GABA and how all of these systems interact within larger brain networks.

So perhaps the better picture isn't:

“ADHD brains don't have enough dopamine.”

It's:

ADHD involves differences in how complex brain systems regulate attention, activation, reward and Executive Function.

Why does that matter outside a neuroscience textbook?

Because it changes how we interpret behavior.

A student who isn't starting an assignment may know perfectly well that it matters.

A teenager who chooses YouTube over an essay isn't necessarily making a calculated decision that YouTube is more important than graduating.

And a child who focuses intensely on LEGO but struggles through ten minutes of homework has not just proven that they “can focus when they want to.”

Motivation, attention and Executive Function aren't simple measures of how much someone cares.

They emerge from an interaction between the brain, the task and the environment.

THAT is where thoughtful support becomes powerful.

Executive Function coaching doesn't “increase dopamine.”

We can, however, help students create conditions that make Executive Function easier to access:

→ make the goal visible
→ reduce working-memory load
→ clarify what “done” looks like
→ create an obvious starting point
→ make time visible
→ add useful feedback
→ adjust an overwhelming task
→ notice which conditions help THEIR brain engage
→ build systems they can eventually use independently

We're not trying to trick an ADHD brain into working.

We're helping a student understand how their brain works and learn to work WITH it.

That is a very different message from:

“You just need to be more motivated.”

🩵🧡🩵

Capable isn't the question. Access is.

This week we’re stepping outside our usual rhythm for a five-part series written especially with teachers in mind and wi...
10/05/2026

This week we’re stepping outside our usual rhythm for a five-part series written especially with teachers in mind and with plenty for parents to borrow at home.

BEFORE YOU EXPLAIN, ASK

Sometimes the most powerful teaching move is not another explanation.

It’s a question.

A student is staring at the assignment. They’ve missed a direction. Their answer makes absolutely no sense.

You can already see exactly where they went wrong.
And your teacher instinct might say:
“Okay, let me show you…”

But what if we gave their brain the first turn?

“What do you think this is asking you to do?”
“Show me where it started getting confusing.”
“What have you already figured out?”
“What’s your best guess?”

This isn’t withholding instruction.
It’s finding out what instruction is actually needed.

For students whose executive function skills are still developing, adults can become very efficient external brains. We remember, interpret, organize, prioritize, explain and solve before the student has had much opportunity to do any of that thinking.

The goal isn’t to stop helping.
It’s to pause long enough to see what the learner can notice, retrieve or generate first.

Ask.
Wait.
Listen.
Then teach.

And that WAIT part matters. 😉
Teachers, this can be as small as resisting the urge to answer your own question.

Parents, the same thing works at the kitchen table.

Instead of:
“You need to start with your vocabulary.”
Try:
“What do you think makes the most sense to start with?”

We may discover that the student needs teaching. We may also discover that they knew more than we thought.

This week I’m sharing five tiny shifts that use curiosity to support executive function, agency and learning.

Parents: if one makes you think of a teacher who really “gets” your child or one you’d love to partner with please share the series with them.

We’re all trying to help kids become increasingly able to think without us doing all the thinking for them.

10/02/2026

Brain Fact Friday

Regulation doesn’t replace Executive Function. It helps make it available.

Here’s the idea I hope families carry away from this week:

When a student becomes highly stressed, overloaded, frustrated, tired, hungry, sensory-saturated, or emotionally flooded, the brain may have a harder time accessing the very Executive Function skills we are asking for.

Flexible thinking becomes harder.
Impulse control becomes harder.
Working memory becomes harder.
Problem solving becomes harder.
Initiation becomes harder.
That doesn’t mean the skills disappeared.

And it doesn’t mean expectations vanish.
It means the brain may need support getting back to a state where those skills are available again.

So the sequence matters.

Sometimes:
Connect → Regulate → Clarify → Plan → Act

works much better than:
Demand → Remind → Lecture → Escalate → Everybody loses their mind. 😵‍💫

One small experiment for this weekend:

The next time your child seems unusually stuck, irritated, scattered, or shut down, resist fixing the task for just a moment.

Ask yourself:
Is this a skill problem…or is this a skill-access problem right now?

That single question can change the support you offer.
And if you’re finding yourself thinking,
“Okay…but how do I know which one it is?”

That is exactly the kind of puzzle we work through in Executive Function coaching.

Because capable kids don’t always need more pressure.
Sometimes they need help understanding the conditions that allow their capable brain to show up.

ADHD AWARENESS MONTH But they CAN do it.Yep.And this may be one of the most misunderstood parts of ADHD.A student finish...
10/02/2026

ADHD AWARENESS MONTH

But they CAN do it.

Yep.

And this may be one of the most misunderstood parts of ADHD.

A student finishes the assignment independently on Tuesday…

…and cannot seem to get started on Thursday.

They remember everything they need for practice one day…

…and leave their shoes, water bottle AND homework sitting by the door the next.

They can focus on something for an hour…

…but stare at a 10-minute assignment like there is an invisible wall between them and the first question.

So adults understandably wonder:

“If you did it yesterday, why can’t you just do it today?”

Here’s where Executive Function changes the conversation.

ADHD doesn't necessarily mean a person doesn't have the skill.

Sometimes the bigger difficulty is reliably accessing and regulating that skill when it is needed.

And research backs up the idea that variability matters in ADHD.

Across hundreds of studies, people with ADHD have shown greater moment-to-moment variability in performance than typically developing comparison groups.

In other words:

Inconsistency can be part of the difficulty.

Performance can change depending on things like:

⏱️ task pace
🧩 structure
🎯 clarity
🔁 repetition
🏆 reinforcement
🧠 cognitive load
😴 available mental energy
🌎 what else is happening in the environment

That DOESN'T mean expectations disappear.

It means “You did it yesterday” isn't actually a strategy for helping someone access the skill today.

This is one place Executive Function coaching can be incredibly useful.

Instead of only asking:

❌ “Why didn't you do it?”

We can get curious:

✅ What was different when it worked?

Was the first step obvious?

Was someone nearby?

Was there a deadline they could actually feel?

Was the assignment broken into pieces?

Were materials already out?

Did they know exactly what “done” looked like?

Did they have fewer things competing for their working memory?

Did they start before they were exhausted?

Now we're learning something.

Because the goal isn't to create a student who can only function when an adult manages everything for them.

And it isn't to remove every expectation because ADHD makes things harder.

The goal is accountability + independence.

We help students notice the conditions that make success more accessible, build supports around those conditions, practice using them, and eventually learn to create more of that structure for themselves.

That is very different from:

“You CAN do it. I've seen you.”

Try this instead:

“You did it before. Let's figure out what helped your brain access it.”

That tiny shift moves us from judgment…

to metacognition.

From compliance…

to problem solving.

And eventually, from adult-managed support…

to student ownership.

🧡🩵 Capable isn't the question. Access is.🩵🧡

Can't wait to see all the kiddos in their costumes!  Stop by and say hi!
10/01/2026

Can't wait to see all the kiddos in their costumes! Stop by and say hi!

Beyond CapableThe goal of regulation support is not to create a child who is always quiet, compliant, relaxed, or pleasa...
10/01/2026

Beyond Capable

The goal of regulation support is not to create a child who is always quiet, compliant, relaxed, or pleasant.
That isn’t regulation.
That’s an adult-centered definition of “easy.”

Real regulation might look like:
“I need a minute.”
“I’m getting really frustrated.”
“I can do this, but not with everyone talking.”
“I need to move before I start.”
“I’m not ready to talk yet.”
“I thought I understood the assignment, but I don’t.”
“I need help figuring out the first step.”
THAT is ownership.
And getting there usually takes time.

First, an adult notices the pattern.
Then we help the student notice it.
Then we experiment with supports.
Then the student begins choosing what works.

Eventually, ideally, they begin anticipating what they will need before things fall apart.

That is the progression I care about:
Support → Awareness → Strategy → Ownership → Independence

We are not trying to regulate FOR students forever.
We are helping them build a system they can eventually run themselves.
That’s where accountability + independence meet.

And it’s one of the reasons Executive Function coaching goes far beyond homework completion.

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