05/26/2026
This is not an easy fix. It can be really hard to learn to live in the present moment. This is especially true if you’ve had anxiety for years or decades and have grown quite used to living in your head. I once heard someone say, “people with anxiety will do their best living as close to the present moment as possible.” I never forgot it because it is so true.
Those of us with anxiety usually tend to be future-focused, worrying about all the possible bad things that could happen. We have a hard time being in the present. The good news is we can get better at it. It is worth improving because, when you really pay attention to what is going on around you and allow yourself to experience it, you will not be in the future. You simply can’t do both.
It can be helpful to practice living in the present moment for small chunks of time at first. Strategies I have used to help me practice this skill: (1) grounding exercises in which you take note of your physical environment through each of your senses (I’ll post a worksheet for this in my stories).; (2) playing board games/lawn games with the hubby (Rook, Codenames, Corn Hole, Ladder Golf) forces me to stay focused in the present because if I don’t I’ll lose the game, lol; (3) detaching from my phone for a small chunk of time so I don’t mindlessly scroll and, instead focus on present surroundings; (4) nature walks without phone, music, headphones and only focus on physical environment; (5) eating a delicious snack or meal with no distractions and being intentional about savoring/enjoying all the flavors. Importantly, expect that your mind will drift at times, especially as you build the habit. Don’t judge yourself-just recognize it and bring yourself back to the present. Try doing a present-focused activity for 10 minutes at time and then lengthen it as you build the skill.
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