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09/03/2026

There are few parenting phrases easier to say and less likely to work than “Just calm down.” I have said it. Usually with the confidence of a man who believes the volume of his voice may somehow help another person's nervous system become peaceful. “Take a breath and relax. You're fine.” Then, to my surprise, the anxious child does not become fine. Sometimes they become noticeably less fine, which is humbling when your parenting strategy was built entirely around the assumption that being told to relax is relaxing.

That was the tension at the center of a recent Celebrate Kids Podcast conversation. The research discussed in the episode suggests that when children are experiencing intense or chronic anxiety, their threat response systems can activate before the rational parts of the brain have time to interpret what is happening. In that moment, the child may not simply be refusing to calm down. Their body may not yet be ready to do what we are asking.

Dr. Kathy talks about this and more on today's podcast and blog; check it out at celebratekids.com

09/03/2026

09/02/2026

There is a certain kind of relief that arrives when school starts again. Summer is wonderful, but summer is also the season when bedtime becomes a suggestion, snacks become a food group, and somebody is always asking whether another bowl of cereal at 10:14 p.m. technically counts as dinner. Then school arrives, and suddenly the family calendar matters again. Wake up time matters. Lunch matters. Routine comes back, and for many families that is not a burden. It is a gift.

That was part of the conversation in a recent Celebrate Kids Podcast episode focused on a simple CDC back to school reminder: children need adequate sleep, physical activity, healthy nutrition, and limited screen time. None of that is especially surprising. What matters is how deeply those things are connected. Too little sleep can affect movement and eating. Excessive screen time can interfere with sleep and mental health. Kids ages six to seventeen need regular physical activity, and not just casual movement, but the kind of play and exertion that strengthens muscles, bones, coordination, and confidence.

Dr. Kathy talks about this and more on today's podcast and blog. Check it out at celebratekids.com

09/01/2026

There are seasons when love rearranges the furniture of your life. The calendar changes. Sleep changes. Meals become whatever you can eat standing up. There are three coffee cups somewhere in the house because you have forgotten which one is yours, and eventually you decide this is less of a problem than finding the person who needs you. Caregiving can do that. A spouse becomes ill. A parent begins needing more help. A child requires care you never expected to provide. Nobody necessarily announces that your life is about to narrow. It simply does, one loving decision at a time.

That was the tension at the center of our recent Celebrate Kids Podcast conversation. The episode used the story of Dolly Parton caring for her husband through illness as a doorway into a much larger reality: millions of Americans are caregivers, and many routinely move their own health, appointments, rest, friendships, and needs to the bottom of the list. Usually that does not happen because they do not value themselves. It happens because somebody they love needs them right now.

Dr. Kathy talks about this and more on today's podcast and blog; check it out at celebratekids.com

08/31/2026

One of the strange things about parenting teenagers is that we spend years teaching them to listen to us, and then they reach an age when almost every other voice sounds more interesting. A friend says something, and it carries weight. An influencer says it, and suddenly it is worth considering. Then artificial intelligence arrives with an additional advantage: it is available at two in the morning, and it is extraordinarily difficult to annoy. I can type something into AI that is mediocre and somehow receive a response that makes me feel like I may have just solved Western civilization. Imagine how appealing that can be to a teenager still figuring out who they are.

The podcast conversation looked at new teen focused ChatGPT protections designed to make the distinction between AI and human relationships clearer, including reminders that teens are interacting with a chatbot and additional protections for high risk conversations. Those sound like meaningful attempts to address real concerns. But Dr. Kathy made an important point: even strong technological safeguards cannot do the work parents were designed to do. A product can limit what it says. It cannot secure a child’s heart.

08/28/2026

Sometimes I look at one of my kids and wonder what in the world they are doing. I mean that lovingly, of course, but parenting includes plenty of moments when the person in front of you seems to be operating from a plan nobody else received. What we discussed on the Celebrate Kids Podcast makes that question more interesting. Researchers studying the hippocampus have found patterns of neural activity that appear to help the brain simulate possible routes toward a goal. In other words, the brain does not simply remember where it has been. It appears capable of rehearsing where it might go.

That has implications beyond finding our way through physical space. Imagination and thinking about the future are closely connected. We can picture possibilities that do not yet exist. We can ask, “What if?” “Where could this lead?” That ability matters tremendously for children because eventually every child begins wrestling with some version of the question, “Why am I here, and where am I going?”

Dr. Kathy talks about this and more on the podcast and in the blog today. Check it out at celebratekids.com