Padre Rafael

Crees que puedes decirte "Me amo y me Acepto".

ME FALTÓ AMARME A MÍ
Cuando era niña, soñaba con que mi mamá me abrazara fuerte y me dijera lo mucho que me quería.
De adolescente, quería encajar, que me invitaran, que me notaran.
Y cuando elegí a quien sería mi pareja, esperaba detalles, flores, palabras dulces, noches especiales…
pero nunca llegaron.
Y yo seguía esperando.
Pasaron los años, y seguía creyendo que alguien más me iba a dar eso que yo no sabía darme.
Miraba hacia fuera, buscando lo que siempre debí buscar en mí.
Hoy, ya más grande, me doy cuenta de algo importante:
no me faltaron personas…
me falté yo.
Me faltó abrazarme, hablarme bonito, cuidarme, elegirme.
Me faltó consentirme sin culpa, cantarme sin vergüenza, defenderme sin miedo.
Me faltó entender que no era egoísmo… era amor propio.
Y sí, también me faltó dejar de esperar tanto de los demás y empezar a darme yo lo que tanto anhelaba.
Hoy, me miro con más ternura.
Me pido perdón por las veces que me solté de mi propia mano.
Y me prometo no volver a dejarme para después.
Porque ahora sé que amarse no es vanidad…
es sanar.
Es volver a casa.
Es empezar de nuevo… pero conmigo.

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After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.”

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who had been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my 3 children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

“What’s wrong, are you well?” she asked. My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.

“I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.”

She thought about it for a moment, and then said, “I would like that very much.”

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an Angel’s. “I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed,” she said, as she got into the car. “They can’t wait to hear about our meeting.”

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. “It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,” she said. “Then it’s time that you relax and let me return the favor,” I responded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation — nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, “I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.” I agreed.

“How was your dinner date?” Asked my wife when I got home.

“Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place where mother and I had dined. An attached note said: “I paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure that I could be there; but nevertheless I paid for two plates — one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me.”

“I love you, son.”

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: “I love you,” and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till “some other time.”

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