The.Worthy.Parent

01/20/2024

Let's not pretend that we don't all have some degree of shame or guilt when it comes to choices we've made as parents. That's what being a human is. Making mistakes and growing from them.

Many of those choices didn't feel like choices at all, though. It felt like instinct or impulse. Like you did what came natural to you, am I right? It can look like ...

The moment you yell at your child and instantly regret it...

The punishment that you know deep down in your gut didn't feel right. But you don't know what else to do. And your child's behavior never really changes.

These decisions we make lead us to feel disconnected from our children. A child who feels disconnected, hurt, and unheard will have hard behaviors. The cycle continues.

What if i told you so much of that is due to the way that we were raised, and the way our parents were raised and so forth.

It's ingrained in us. It has been carried down by generations because they truly didn't know the implications of unsecure attachment or corporal punishment.

They didn't know that yelling at your child on a regular basis has the same effect on a childs brain as physical abuse.

They didn't know...

They just followed their instincts. But we know more now, we have science, research and studies to inform us. So this doesn't have to continue.

If those instincts don't align with the parent you want to be. YOU can make that cycle end with YOU.

But you have to start by healing yourself.

And you don't have to do it alone.

I will be hosting group coaching, where you'll learn about generational patterns in parenting, child developmental behavior, nervous system regulation, and so so much more. Im offering a $150 discount if you're interested and want more details and pricing. DM me. 🖤

01/19/2024

This is a great article explaining what a parent coach is, what they can do for you and why you may consider hiring one! It also features the CEO of the company who I was certified through!

"My job is to give you some great tools to create connection and cooperation, and then you won't need me anymore."

01/18/2024

🖤I still have a few spots available for those parents who are ready to become more empowered and to help them navigate and support conscious changes for themselves, their children and their family as a whole!

🖤If you're interested, I'm offering a group coaching special! $150 off your total!

🖤Message me for more details!

01/12/2024

⚡️Hey friends! Im sharing here first incase you haven't gone and given my new parent coaching page The.Worthy.Parent a 'Like' yet!

⚡️I wanted to share that, I'm now offering an online group for any parents who are interested in parent coaching! This will be a 12 week program where you'll recieve access to The Jai Institute of Parenting: Transformational Parenting Program, Weekly group calls and 1-on-1 support with me!

⚡️I'm so excited to start working with parents and to share this comprehensive program! It truly is life changing as a parent.

⚡️My coaching methodology is all about supporting parents by bringing in practical tools like non-violent communication and emotional intelligence exercises. Through coaching methods like generational pattern coaching, I help parents shift away from limiting beliefs and move to a more connected, empowered parenting style. This will help builds secure, safe, and respectful relationships with your children.

⚡️So to kickstart my business I'm giving a $150 discount to those who join before February 1st! There will only be a limited amount of spots though! So if you want to know more, please shoot me a message! And if you know any other parents who are interested, tag them in the comments!

01/01/2024

Here is a testimonial from my first coaching client! Working with Christine was so rewarding! Seeing the shift in her journey was incredible, and I can't wait to help other parents on their journey!
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🤍 I will be offering 1-on-1 and Group Coaching! If you'd like to know more, please send me a DM!🤍

12/30/2023

Would you get restful sleep if you had just been yelled at before going to bed?

Would you have a productive day at work if you had been yelled at before getting out the door?

It's safe to say that no one would feel good about that. Especially our children.

We set the tone for their day.
We set the tone for our voice they will remember inside their head.
Do we want that voice to be full of connection or disconnection?

Is there some magic parenting trick to never yelling at our kids again? No. Absolutely not. Humans are inherently too flawed for that to just be possible.
But what we can do is learn to become more emotionally mature and regulated adults. We can learn to repair our connection with our children. We can learn to use logical and natural consequences instead of arbitrary consequences.

We must believe that progress is more important than perfection. And connection is far greater than obedience.

12/11/2023

Want to know a hard truth about parenting? Self-healing is key to overcoming parenting challenges.

As parents, we often struggle with our children's behavior, searching for the right techniques to help them grow. However, the hard truth is that without healing our own hearts and minds, we may not see the results we're hoping for. It's crucial to re-parent ourselves and align our values with our parenting goals to create a positive and healthy environment for our children.

While this process is not easy, it's essential if we want to see genuine change in our parenting and relationship with our children. If you're not sure where to begin, please don't hesitate to reach out to me directly by DM or commenting "CHANGE." Let's discuss possible options to help you embark on this journey.

12/07/2023

May I ask you a few questions...

•Do you have the longing for a better relationship with your children?
•A relationship that doesn't involve power struggles, fear, blame, shame, and guilt?
•Do you want to be confident in your role as a parent?

•What if I told you that it's absolutely possible, but it starts and ends with YOU...
•That can feel really uncomfortable and overwhelming.
It can even feel a bit impossible.
•Where do you even start?
•My kids are older, is it too late? •What does respectful and peaceful parenting look like?
•How do I cultivate real change for myself and my family?

•You may have all the questions, but let me reassure you that even through the discomfort, the guilt, the unknown, and the imperfection, you can become the empowered parent you long to be.
•You can heal your relationship within yourself and with your children.
•The best part is that you don't have to do it alone!

For a limited time, I will have FIVE coaching spots available for my
12-week Transformational Parenting Program at a 50% reduced cost. For more information, please send me a DM!
worthy.parent

12/07/2023

Why "The Worthy Parent" is More Than Just a Name. It's a belief.

What constitutes worthiness? Is it measured by one's natural ability to parent, their knowledge to create change, or their proficiency in healing? None of those things can dictate your worthiness as a parent.

Your worth is decided by you. Your worth is measured by your longing for a deeper, more secure relationship with yourself and your family. It's the understanding that change starts within.

"The Worthy Parent" was chosen as the name of my business because i believe that everyone deserves to have a strong, fulfilling relationship with their children.

By taking the first step towards growth and learning, you're also committing to breaking the cycle of generational trauma, healing parts of yourself you never thought needed it, addressing unconscious beliefs and understanding that the work we do within the walls of our own heart and the hearts of our children, is by far the most important work we can do.

I believe that you are worthy of this journey, and I am here to guide you through.

12/07/2023

Hey, everyone! Welcome!

••My name is Jayci Dalrymple! I'm a mom of 3, a wife, a part-time hairstylist, and now I'm a Jai Certified Parent Coach!

•• You might be wondering what a parent coach is and what they "coach" you on. Well, I will try to keep it short (I'll explain more in depth in later posts!) Along with more who, what, when, where, and why!

••As a parenting coach, I offer support and guidance to parents as they navigate the complexities of parenthood. What this can include is helping parents understand their child's "why" behind challenging behaviors, child brain development, non-violent communication, nervous system response, and SO MUCH more! I will also aid parents in finding secure connection with their children and guide parents into their journey of becoming the kind of parent they long to be.

••As a Parent Coach, I do not and will not ever claim to be a perfect parent because there is no such thing! I am just a mom who is passionate about parents connecting authentically with their child, listening to parents as they work through their hardships, and helping guide them through a transformation.

••I currently offer a 12-week Transformational Parenting Program. I've personally been through this program, and it has been life changing. It has given me so much more confidence, compassion, and understanding of the parent I was, am, and continually work on becoming. I am wildly excited to offer this amazing resource to other parents who want to not just survive parenthood but actually thrive within parenthood!

••If you've made it through my post, THANK YOU! Also if using a parent coach feels like something you're interested in or curious about. PLEASE shoot me a DM! I'd love to chat with you and answer your questions the best I can!

-Jayci

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