08/17/2026
๐๐ซ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก ๐ข๐ง ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ฅ
When weโre working with horses, itโs very easy to fall into the trap of looking for one universal truth that will support the well-being of our equine partners. The perfect balance, the correct head position, the right amount and type of work, and so on. But a more flexible mindset can serve both us and the horses better.
Balance isnโt one fixed thing. It is dynamic; something weโre continuously finding, losing and finding again.
There isnโt one correct head position either. Where the horse can find the most support depends on the ground conditions, their individual anatomy and development, and the type of activity weโre doing.
There will be days when a focus on relaxation and resolving tension is most beneficial, and other days when a good gallop is the better choice.
Even when we find a general template that works well, thereโs always a chance that something changes and causes it to stop working as well. When we reach that point, can we listen to the horse and be flexible enough to adjust what weโre doing? Are we willing to let go of what we held as our truth for a while?
Taking this approach doesnโt mean there are no principles or that anything goes. It means that if we want our work to increase our horsesโ well-being, we need to keep listening to the feedback theyโre giving usโand have the open-mindedness and humility to adjust when they show us that their needs have changed.
If we can move beyond always needing to be โrightโ and instead find the willingness to learn from the horse in front of us, weโll be in a much better position to be helpful.
The truth remains flexible, because the horse, the situation, and the moment are always changing.
Have you experienced a situation where a horse caused you to change your mind about something you thought was true? Let us know in the comments!