Ageless Jess Your Intuitive Guide

Celebrating 25 years of friendship with ! She came down to to Florida on her 4th consecutive visit since I moved. We met in 2001, we were 2 thirty one year old newly single Gals who each had a dog. We met through a newspaper ad in the Creative Loafing when I was looking for a roommate. Today we have both been happily married for over 20 years. She has a beautiful family and is about to be an empty nester herself! (I’m used to it)

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Some recent pics….
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When intuition nudges…I listen. The year of the Firehorse has me galloping away from so much that doesn’t serve me right now. There’s a myriad of reasons why it’s the best decision for me now. My own energy and needing to place a much stronger boundary around it is the primary one. The fact that I’m not on here nearly as much and don’t want to neglect an account that can be exploited through AI is another. (It’s happening!) More on this tomorrow it’s an interesting list.

That being said, I will be deactivating my account on 2/21. Just a heads up for any people who may think I blocked them. (Or if it was still 2020 you would just assume I got kicked off the platform for piping up on topics that were getting squashed left and right like Whack A Mole! )

I’m taking the Year of the Fire Horse away from this platform and I’ll decide next year if I want to return. Who knows. It will definitely not be boring to try this. I still love the 90’s and need a little more analog back in my life!

In the meantime, I’ll still be working quietly 1:1 with women daily at Love Strategies helping women find healthy, loving committed relationships. I know my own marriage has been a game changer for my life. The world needs more love right now than ever, and my energy is best served helping more people connect with the most powerful emotion there is. 🥰

A great reminder:

“YOU ARE NOT STUCK.

We have to be so brave to move from one shore to another. The act of pushing off is altogether terrifying, as is the landing in an unfamiliar place.

But what's hardest, I think, is navigating the uncertain part in the middle – the point where we've gone too far to turn back, and yet there's still so much distance to travel ahead.

So with no anchor, no tether, maybe even no charted course, we're left with no choice but to simply keep going.

Toward the new. Toward the dawn. Toward the land of second chances.

That's the moment where we must pull out all of our courage – and have faith that we will get where we need to be, safely and intact.

Let that faith guide you through the messy middle. Stay true to the vision of that life you want. And don't ever give up before the miracle.”

✨Becky Vollmer✨

Agreed!

Everything you have right now—your bank account, your body, your relationships—is just the scorecard from decisions you made three, five, ten years ago.

You're living in the past's future.

Which means five years from now, you'll be living in today's future. The choices you make this week, this month, this year. That's what you'll be stuck with.

Most people don't connect these dots. They treat today like it's isolated. Just another Tuesday. Nothing special. Decisions feel small in the moment.

They're not. They're compounding.

The workout you skip today isn't one workout. It's a vote for who you'll be in 2030.

The relationship you neglect isn't one missed dinner. It's a trajectory.

The skill you keep putting off isn't just delayed. It's five years of compound growth you'll never get back.

Today isn't neutral. It's a deposit or a withdrawal on a future you haven't met yet.

Make it count.

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I write a weekly newsletter where I unpack these ideas.

→ newsletter.scottdclary.com

My 25 Accomplishments in 2025. Enjoy!
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Hate me all day.
I will never forget how ridiculous this push to poison people actually was. Once I saw the bribery happening, my intuition was on high alert. And I LISTENED.

I’M SO GRATEFUL. 🙏

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This adorable rabbit 🐇 hangs out in my backyard and is unafraid. even came out and she just froze and sat there until she went back inside and she resumed munching. There is a message from this Fearless Rabbit Spirit. I keep seeing her. “No coincidences, only Synchronicities”