Adult Autism Too

Even when there is no ill intent, taking a rigid position to make decisions for autistic individuals, adults in particular, without dialogue can be viewed as patronizing. Care must be taken not to dismiss unseen qualities that are powerful and life changing.

We must have different experiences and thoughts to reflect the ideals of inclusivity and tolerance. The very idea of excluding those most deeply affected from meaningful dialogue is extremely authoritarian.

Research indicates that most decision making that relates to autistic adults takes place without consulting with adults with autism. This is a shocking revelation. What may appear as inconsequential to others has significance to many people with autism and other diagnoses.

It's dangerous to exclude autistic adults from policy making decisions that directly impact their lives. One of the most important reasons is getting the research and implementation of new ideas wrong. For example, we currently have children based autism models in place that attempt to address autistic adult issues. Those models are outdated and no longer applicable for the complex needs of autistic adults.

There is no denying the impact artificial intelligence has on the autism community. Improvements include broader diagnostics, enhanced communication, adaptive learning tools, and the promotion of independent living skills. However, all is not well in the world of AL as it relates to autism. There is a sharp underrepresentation of autistic adult involvement at the policy development and decision making levels. The gates to full inclusion must be opened before ethical change can occur.

Can a leopard change its spots? No it can not. Asking an autistic person to change to fit somebody else's expectations is unlikely going to happen. The real question is, why does someone with autism have to change?

Providing safe spaces for autistic adults is extremely important. Growing as an adult means telling the difference between a friend and a person seeking to exploit you. Practicing the lessons learned throughout childhood is absolutely necessary. There are moments that come up as 50/50 situations, with no clear answers. During those times, remember to trust your instincts. Follow that feeling deep down inside that tells you to act or walk away.

The legal system and autism are on a collision course that will not end well unless changes are made. From law enforcement to the courts, there is a major disconnect in how autistic adults are perceived and treated. Staffing shortages only intensify a problem that can no longer be swept under the rug.

Congratulations to both the US and Canada for displaying the true spirit of competition in the Paralympics men's sled hockey contest. The sledges are a wonderful example of what's possible for people with disabilities when given the opportunity and the proper equipment.

Managing medical appointments is becoming more difficult for many seniors. The same holds true for some autistic adults as well. Often scheduling is done online, which excludes many autistic adults because they don't have a social media presence. In addition, organizational skills may not be sufficient to follow up with a regular doctor or to schedule a visit with a specialist.