Cammie Wilson Coaching & Spiritual Direction

When we refuse to see reality…we can actually be the problem. By avoiding conflict, we create conflict. 💕💕💕

I often get asked, “What is co-dependency exactly?” A simple definition is “You are living within co-dependency when your ‘okayness’ is dependent upon another being okay with you.” Freedom and health are when I know my ‘okayness’ or acceptability is independent of others 💕💕💕

A true test of health and wholeness is how you, or those you are engaged with, handle the word "NO." A healthy person, while not necessarily liking it, can handle it with dignity and understanding. Narcissism hates No.

Healthy individuals handle “No” with strength, dignity, and grace, knowing disappointment is part of our journey as much, if not more, than “Yes”. Love cares. Love may not always understand. But love gives grace regardless 💕💕💕

Yes, yes, and yes 💕

Natural consequences are the best educator I know.

No one will learn unless they experience the consequences of their decisions— even children.

Every time you rescue someone from the consequences of their decisions, you rob them of an opportunity to learn and thus, grow.

We want things to be good. We want things to be right. We want security, sanity, and a steadiness to life. But when stability depends on us getting it right all the time and pretending everything is fine, then that’s not true peace. That’s control.

Healthy individuals handle “No” with strength, dignity, and grace, knowing disappointment is part of our journey as much, if not more, than “Yes”. Love cares. Love may not always understand. But love gives grace regardless 💕💕💕

Are you living wholeheartedly? At the heart of Spiritual Direction is learning how to recognize, step into, and live in the love and presence of God - authentic wholehearted living 💕💕💕.

Growing stronger and healthier isn’t always celebrated by others. Being comfortable with the discomfort of others not embracing your healthier self is part of the greater growth experience 💕💕💕

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Disappointing someone is not the same as dishonoring them.

If they’re asking you to betray your health to keep their peace… it’s time to say no.