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08/27/2026

Her music didn’t get me first, but her b***s did.

Growing up in Tennessee, Dolly Parton felt larger than life.

When I was entering puberty, comments about my developing body made me want to hide. I wore oversized sweaters and tried to make myself smaller.

Then there was Dolly.

Big hair. Rhinestones. Cleavage. Confidence.

People joked about her body, but she never shrank herself to make anyone else comfortable.

As I got older, I understood the bigger lesson. While people focused on her looks, Dolly was writing songs, building businesses, giving back, and creating an incredible legacy.

She showed me you can be feminine and formidable. You can bring the b***s and the brains.

You never have to make yourself smaller to be taken seriously.

From one Tennessee girl to another, thank you, Dolly.

08/26/2026

As the only person of color teaching at a predominantly white institution, I wasn’t just expected to know the material.

I often felt expected to prove I was qualified to teach it.

Students questioned my expertise, asked about my credentials, and made me aware of how much representation matters in spaces of authority.

I think about that now when families tell me they want a college with “diversity.”

Student diversity matters. But so does faculty diversity.

Who teaches?
Who leads?
Who is seen as the expert?
Whose perspectives shape the classroom?

I chose my own graduate program partly because my doctoral advisor was a Black mother who completed her doctorate while raising three children, just as I was doing.

Seeing her gave me mentorship, guidance, and something harder to measure: possibility.

And that matters for every student.

A diverse faculty exposes students to different perspectives, experiences, questions, and ways of understanding the world.

So when evaluating a college’s diversity, don’t stop at the student demographics.

Look at who is standing at the front of the classroom, too.

Student diversity matters. It’s just not the whole story.

Photo: When I started grad school, all three of my kids were under 5. Here we are after graduation, when I was a professor.

08/20/2026

Her comment hurt me.

I was sitting in the airport when a young girl made a deeply hurtful comment about my appearance.

Her parents were mortified.

But before she said it, I had noticed something about the way she communicated that made me wonder if there was more to the story.

Later, I saw the necklace around her neck:

“Invisible disability.”

And it reminded me how quickly we can judge a child, a parent, or a family based on one moment.

Most families do not have a visible sign explaining the diagnosis, the struggle, the difficult morning, or the years of work happening behind the scenes.

I was still hurt by what she said.

Compassion did not erase that.

It simply reminded me that I did not know everything this family was carrying.

Sometimes compassion is just pausing long enough to consider what we cannot see.

08/13/2026

If Mom says yes to $360,000 and Dad says no, your teen is not ready to apply Early Decision.

I watched this happen with a client family.

Their son wanted to apply ED to his first-choice college. Dad wasn’t comfortable committing to roughly $360,000 over four years. Mom felt differently.

They applied anyway.

He got in.

But instead of feeling like a win, the decision created tension because the parents had never agreed on what they were actually willing to pay.

That’s the conversation families need to have before Early Decision is on the table.

What are we willing to spend?
How much debt are we comfortable with?
Do we need to compare financial aid offers?

Early Decision isn’t just an admissions strategy.

It’s a family financial decision.

And if Mom says yes and Dad says no, the family isn’t ready.

07/24/2026

Most people think discipline starts with motivation.

I’m learning it starts with not wanting to start over.

That’s what has kept me going during the Challenge.

Not excitement. Not a perfect routine. Just one thought:

I do not want to go back to Day 1.

When I asked if anyone wanted to join me, no one did. I realized I wasn’t only looking for accountability. I was looking for company—someone to make the decision feel less risky.

But eventually, I had to decide I could still do the hard thing alone.

Surprisingly, the workouts, vegan diet, water, and reading have not been the hardest part.

The progress photo has.

Every day, I have to look honestly at the parts of myself I would rather avoid—and take the photo anyway.

Maybe the photo is not only about documenting physical change.

Maybe it is documenting the courage to keep showing up before the change is obvious.

We celebrate the after picture, but the real work happens when everything still looks the same.

Sometimes the progress is not in the picture.

Sometimes the progress is that you were willing to take it.

By Day 75, I may see the change I’m hoping for. But either way, I’ll know I did not quit on myself.

And that matters.

07/21/2026

The college admissions journey begins in middle school.

Many parents don’t realize that middle school is when students begin building the habits, confidence, and academic foundation that will shape their high school experience and open doors in the future.

The good news? You don’t have to guess what matters or wait until it’s “time” to start thinking about college.

Join Dr. Pamela Ellis for a free webinar where you’ll learn how to help your middle schooler prepare for success in high school and beyond—without adding unnecessary stress or pressure.

Wednesday, July 22, 2026
8:00 PM EST | 7:00 PM CST | 5:00 PM PST

Reserve your spot today. The earlier you understand the process, the more opportunities you’ll be able to create for your child.

07/16/2026

Would you say something… or let it go?

A parent decided to use AI to build their child’s college list instead of working with a counselor.

The problem? Several of the schools on that list were schools I personally would not have recommended based on the student’s goals, needs, and overall fit.

And that is the part AI cannot fully replace.

It can generate names.
It can compare stats.
It can give you a starting point.

But it does not know your child.

It does not understand the family dynamics, financial priorities, learning environment, support needs, personality, or the many little details that determine whether a college is truly a good fit.

So now I’m wondering… do I say something, or do I let the family move forward with the list they created?

What would you do?

07/09/2026

If you’re a mom of a college-bound teen, you need to hear this.

AI can help generate ideas.

But it cannot truly see your child.

It does not know their hesitation.
Their confidence gaps.
Their family story.
Their way of thinking.
The moments they light up.
The places where they need a little more support.

That’s the difference between getting answers and being guided.

At Compass, we don’t just help students complete the college process.

We pay attention.
We ask better questions.
We notice what matters.
We help students feel seen, supported, and prepared for what’s next.

Because your teen is not a prompt.

They’re a person.

07/03/2026

I created the College Clarity Collective because I kept hearing the same thing from parents:

“We know college is coming… but we don’t know what we should be doing right now.”

And that uncertainty can make the process feel heavier than it needs to.

Parents are getting information from school emails, social media, friends, parent groups, online searches, and college websites. But more information does not always create more clarity.

Sometimes it just creates more stress.

I wanted to create a space where families could get timely guidance, ask questions, understand what matters most, and move through the college process with a clearer plan.

Inside the College Clarity Collective, parents receive a month-by-month roadmap, live teaching and Q&A, ongoing support, strategic college planning guidance, and a community of other families navigating the same process.

Because college planning is not just about getting applications done.

It is about helping students make thoughtful choices, understand fit, consider cost, build ownership, and move toward colleges where they can truly thrive.

If you have a high school student and you are tired of trying to figure out every next step on your own, I would love for you to join us inside the College Clarity Collective.

Let’s bring more clarity, confidence, and calm to this process.

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07/01/2026

There’s something I never mention during a family’s consultation.

But 9 times out of 10, it ends up happening anyway.

Years ago, I worked with a student in California while I was living in Ohio. Back then, meeting virtually still felt a little unconventional. The technology was unreliable, and sometimes we had to finish meetings by phone.

But even then, I knew there were things I couldn’t fully understand through a screen.

I wanted to know his world.

His school.
His community.
The people who shaped him.
The place he called home.

So I booked a flight.

I met his parents, visited his neighborhood, and even went to church with the family.

What I gained from that visit wasn’t something I could find on a transcript, activities list, or test score report.

I gained context.

And that changed the way I worked.

Since then, whenever possible, I’ve made it a point to visit our students, even when they live hundreds or thousands of miles away.

Recently, we welcomed our first family in Idaho, and while I was there, I got to spend time with them in person. We talked, laughed, saw their community, and before I left, I got a hug.

Technology has made it possible to work with students across the country, and I’m grateful for that.

But some things simply can’t be experienced through a screen.

There is something special about sitting at a family’s kitchen table, walking through a student’s neighborhood, and seeing the place that shaped them.

Because the better I understand a student, the better I can help them find a college where they won’t just be admitted…

They’ll belong.

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