09/29/2026
“A traumatized boy can become a traumatized leader.”
That warning from Praise Fowowe deserves our attention.
The wounds we ignore in boys do not always disappear with age. Sometimes, they grow into the leadership of homes, organizations, communities—and nations.
Fowowe is a Family Systems Engineer, author, researcher and founder of the Institute of Family Engineering and Development. His work challenges us to stop treating family struggles as isolated incidents and start building healthier systems around children.
At The New York Boys & Men Conversation, he reminded us that forming emotionally healthy boys is not only a family responsibility.
It is a nation-building responsibility.
What unresolved childhood wound do you believe affects the most leaders today?
Drop your answer in the comments.