Dating and Relationships Advice

A real example of how ghosters deflect accountability

Let me get this straight…
You ghosted me.
You came back.
I told you this isn’t the type of relationship I’m looking for.
And your response?
“I don’t care. I know I’m a good person. You’re trying to make me look bad.”
So you disappear, then return and somehow make it about you instead of your behavior?

That’s not remorse.
That’s deflection.
That’s rewriting the story to avoid accountability.

Nothing about this makes ANY sense.
Some people don’t come back to fix things —
they come back to protect their ego.

Have you ever had someone ghost you and then try to flip the blame when they came back?

Stop investing time, energy, and money into things and people that can not pour back into you. And watch how your life changes. You can no longer afford to stay on the back-burner.