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Defense By Design offers professional and personal defensive training.

Elements of both the psychological as well as physical aspects of defense are incorporated for a more comprehensive approach to the topic of personal defense. This page serves to help educate everyday people as to the things happening around us on a daily basis that too often go (a) without notice or (b) unquestioned. Defense By Design primarily works with those in the HR, Risk Management and Prop

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Chicago waitress VIOLENTLY beaten by woman demanding refund (FULL SURVEILLANCE VIDEO) 04/11/2025

For those in or even , this story, I'm sure, hits home. And all over a $50 tab!

I recall one city worker last year from a out-of-state that brought me in for city employee training after one of their Code Compliance officers was killed (yes, killed) in the field last year over a somewhat similar escalation.

One of my ongoing mantras for years has been "an unknown person is an *unpredictable person* and it's what you don't know that can hurt you."

For those in or similar, take note. Not only is there the obvious human damage here, but often such instances result in lawsuits (often claiming negligence) when/where staff were not properly trained to handle such instances and escalations.

Full story is linked in the comments section below, but suffice it to say, I know someone who can help.

Chicago waitress VIOLENTLY beaten by woman demanding refund (FULL SURVEILLANCE VIDEO) A violent attack on a waitress at a Mexican restaurant in Chicago’s Pilsen neighborhood has left owners of the business searching for answers. NBC Chicago’s ...

04/11/2025

I remember years ago an executive in the industry told me, "you know, at the end of the day, the only way we truly distinguish ourselves from our competitors is the 'extra value' we provide our clients that they may not." Interesting perspective.

For any or similar looking to distinguish yourself from 'your' competitors, this is an angle to consider. For years, I have worked with such businesses offering value-add educational programs for/to their clients, both personal lines and commercial lines. Even better when one of the above team up with their own synergy partners and 'their' clients to help cross-promote each other's services to each other's clients. Great approach!

Let's visit and see what we can come up with for you, your synergy partners and your collective clients.

I know someone who can help.

04/10/2025

This site went live today noting I'll be in McAllen, TX as the opening keynote to this 2-day risk management conference hosted by the city, but sponsored by the S. Texas Risk & Management Society as well as the Texas Municipal League.

From city and county governments to school districts to insurance companies to hospitals and more, this will be a great 2-day event for those in the area who wish to attend. It even attracts attendees from across the state due to the lower cost of attendance compared to most such conferences. That, in great part, due to the sponsors making it possible.

04/10/2025

In about two weeks, I have a company bringing me in to provide "tenant training" as a value-add to those in their multiple buildings spread out over a large office park here in Dallas. Why?

I have often referred to buildings as "vertical HOAs" as each office suite/tenant is a "house" unto itself, bringing challenges, internal dynamics, dramas...or even potential violence. And yet management is supposed to know all that is going on, with who, where, and why. Right.

For those in and similar, I absolutely understand your challenges, but I also have an answer by helping empower those onsite to *BE* security rather than relying *on* security. You have to flip the paradigm, otherwise you'll always be chasing your proverbial tail in .

Likewise, any and even representing such commercial clients, we should probably visit as well regarding strategies to help such clients reduce their risks, thereby helping you reduce such potential claims, particularly in the area of negligence.

I know someone who can help.

04/09/2025

For those in along with looking for a one-of-a-kind client value-add event, here you go!

This is a two-hour mother/H.S. senior daughter event, addressing various points of physical and fiscal concern parents have with their daughters heading off to college. From "ditzy roommates" that may invite trouble to male suitors seeing your daughter as his meal ticket through college, to the more obvious concerns of parties, Spring Breaks, dating, etc. this presentation helps prepare these young women to better profile both people and situations they WILL encounter while away at school.

You are welcome to partner with any of the others mentioned above, or possibly even an area who I'm sure would be happy to offer their onsite training facilities to host such an event if that is a question.

A little promotion via email and social media will carry this one along, combined with natural word-of-mouth as your clients invite THEIR friends to attend and bring that potential business to you as well.

Why just do the traditional steak dinners when you can have SIZZLE as well as steak knowing how many parents and grandparents will support you offering to help their daughters/granddaughters with something like this?

I know someone who can help.

How To Become a Channel Partner With DefenseByDesignAcademy.com 04/09/2025

For any or even selling the standard cameras, alarms and access control systems, take a look at this program linked below.

This is one way to provide true "value-add" services to your clients, and one that costs you literally nothing to do so. The benefits are felt on both sides, yours and theirs, for reasons explained in the 8-minute video linked below.

I already have interest from several such companies in this program, but am looking for other similar channel partners to work with regarding the same.

In the world of where there is the unspoken question, "what have you done for me LATELY," this is one way to respond.

I know someone who can help.

How To Become a Channel Partner With DefenseByDesignAcademy.com Attention!Insurance Brokers, Law Firms, CPA Firms, Security Companies...Be a hero for your clients and increase retention through our unique value add opport...

04/08/2025

On April 16, I will be virtually presenting to the Philadelphia Association for Financial Professionals as I have done recently for their Dallas and also Ft. Worth chapters. The topic? "Profiling Internal Breaches."

This association represents executives with the and industry, many already admitting their vulnerability related to such breaches in security and data from the inside.

There are behaviors and lifestyles that speak to such potential patterns and instances of employee compromise, but only if others are *looking for* such patterns. This is not a matter of technology, but training as we're talking human behavior.

For similar Association for Financial Professionals chapters interested in a similar presentation or other or associated professional interested in the same, let's talk.

I know someone who can help.

04/08/2025

I love working with who are looking for something truly "unique" by way of topic/speaker for an upcoming event.

Those who have worked with me in the past at conferences and conventions (even recently) will also tell you that you get *MORE* for your money with me as I live and breathe "value-add" offerings such as extra sessions, availability in vendor/exhibitor booths after speaking and 1:1 with VIPs all at no additional fees.

So if you have a or even event coming up, let's talk. As the video below states, I'm all EARS!

Self-Defense Expert says, "If it looks too good to be true, it probably is" - Week 1 of 4 04/07/2025

Just in the past few weeks, I have seen stories online and heard them in-person of being being pulled in by this dynamic, typically for fiscal exploitation -- but sometimes it can lead to physical harm as well.

It is an old, old saying but still as relevant today as when parents, grandparents or even great grandparents said it to us years ago. But the reason it is seldom applied is that in order for it to be applied means our *EGO* has to be kept in-check. We all want to think that "we" are the exception to the rule, that "we" are not so easily duped, that "we" are God's gift to the dating world. Riiiiiiiiiiight...

When faced with such "windows of opportunity" it is typically best to simply let the window close, do your true due diligence and only revisit later after you have had time and additional insights to reflect upon the 'true' nature, intent or agenda of the offer.

I know someone who can help.

Self-Defense Expert says, "If it looks too good to be true, it probably is" - Week 1 of 4 Self Defense expert, Jeff McKissack of Defense By Design, offers insight into the proverb, "If it looks too good to be true, it probably is." This is Part 1 ...

04/03/2025

While most parents and of course their daughter's high schools have "academically prepared" them for college, there is a massive gap in preparedness related to their actual, overall college "experience" that parents nor high schools today have addressed. This is where I come in.

I have a two-hour program for H.S. senior girls *AND* their mothers related to various points of safety and security while away at college. This is in NO WAY related to anything "kick/punch" related (i.e. self-defense), but rather helping empower these young ladies how to both profile people and situations more proactively as well as how to better navigate the points of physical and even fiscal vulnerabilities she will almost undoubtedly face during her 4+ year collegiate experience.

We will address everything from roommates to suitors, instances of both physical as well as fiscal exploitation, points of navigation related to on-campus and off-campus activities (including protests today).

For any or similar wishing to host one of these events, they are ticketed thus at $0 cost to host, your only "buy-in" is providing the venue and promotion. As a fundraiser, we even split the ticket proceeds 50/50 with you for hosting!

For any seeing this for the incredible PR it poses either for current family clients or future ones, let's talk about sponsoring/hosting this event.

This is two hours of education that can truly save a life -- no punching or kicking required!

Mother/Daughter Seminar 04/01/2025

***For Parents of College-Bound Senior Girls***

I offer a 2-hour presentation helping better prepare your daughters for a safer college experience. Some of the lesser addressed issues that more common "self-defense" seminars do not offer that this one does will include:

1) the "ditzy roommate" that can put her at-risk
2) spring/fall break safety
3) being used as a "meal ticket" by would-be suitors
4) early warning signs of "Mr. Wrong" in dating on campus
5) the physical/reputational dangers of some protests on campus

Note that this can be hosted by churches, schools, PTAs, any nonprofit as a FUNDRAISER for that nonprofit, proceeds being split 50/50 for this ticketed event. Just have them reach out to me for details, but this cost $0 to host for the nonprofit if in the DFW area, only travel expenses required for out-of-town/state such events.

Additionally, given there are new such young ladies obviously matriculating each year, it can also be offered 'annually' by the nonprofit as something parents, even grandparents, will happily cover as safety/security is one of their major concerns on campus.

Mother/Daughter Seminar A 2-hour seminar for mothers and their H.S. senior daughters *BEFORE* they head off to college to keep them safer *AT* college.

04/01/2025

For those who oversee at facilities, please take note of the video below.

It's the old Herb Kelleher (former SW Airlines CEO) approach that if you take care of your people first, they will in turn take care of your customers. If your staff have issues at home, concerns at home, fears at home, dramas at home -- they don't leave these "at" home. They come to work either mentally distracted by these and/or some of those issues can manifest in other deleterious ways at work as well (domestic violence as an example).

If you're still trying to make your *places* safer versus your people, flip the script. The priority should always be on making your *people* safer, who then can/will make your places safer *IF* properly trained and educated.

This Friday I'll be speaking at the Texas Assisted Living Association state conference outside of Austin, addressing this very dynamic speaking to *prevention.*

For those who work within these industries, we should talk as well.

I know someone who can help.

03/31/2025

This Friday I will be opening at 7:45am with a presentation to the Texas Assisted Living Association state conference in the Austin area.

While my presentation is focused on the physical, data and reputational risks that should be considered by such management companies, the real target of the message (and true point of risk mitigation) will be the staff at these facilities themselves. They are the "frontline" of defense.

But this goes further than the obvious as if those staff are not trained or improperly trained in their own "self-management" whether on or off-the-clock related to , then internal compromises are more likely to occur. This is where administration and need to work together.

It is all about strategy, and that's something I've been teaching now for over 38 years to a myriad of professions and industries, this one now also included.

I (and TALA) know someone who can help.

03/28/2025

Next Friday I will be the opening session at the Texas Assisted Living Association state conference, starting out at 7:45am, so early risers welcome! My session is on "Risk & Reputation Management for Communities."

Because of friends who work in and around this industry, I have been privy to a number of stories over the years that speak to my issues of physical, data and reputational risks facing such communities, staff, residents and leadership.

For communities attending TALA next week, I hope to see you at that 7:45am session. I'll be hanging around for a good bit of the day with some already setting times to visit with me while there onsite. Feel free to do the same.

For those communities outside of Texas or not attending, note from the video below I do offer online courses to help address to help make those keeping your residents safer, thus making the residents themselves safer in the process.

I and TALA know someone who can help.

03/28/2025

When I speak of this is yet another example below from X.

I constantly remind audiences, both in-person and via my online courses that cameras are EVERYWHERE today -- but certainly with in this case, on the cars themselves! The other thing that must be considered is the ability for internet sleuths to find out "who" you are and "WHERE" you work. This leads to instances of what we see in the collage below posted on X, as well as the now all-too-familiar PR statement from this fellow's employer.

For any and any reading this, please take note. Those employees that you think "know better" -- don't -- regardless of their position of employment -- they don't. Not only do you have to spell it out in employee agreements/contracts, but communicate it to them as well via to cover your legal, moral and reputational bases. See link to my online courses addressing these below.

Today it may be TESLA vandalism, but I assure you, tomorrow it will be something else. For employers, you don't want to be embarrassed in a court of law *OR* in the "court of public opinion" today either.

I know someone who can help, both online and in-person.

https://DefenseByDesignAcademy.com

03/27/2025

As I go to Austin next week to speak at the Texas Assisted Living Association state conference, the thought reflected in the video also arises.

Not only should properties and property managers conduct regular background checks, but they should demand the same from their 3rd party vendors who frequently visit these properties as well.

Even saying the above, however, no background check can address potential *FUTURE* misbehavior. This is why education and training are so important as they help empower staff (ALL staff) to help monitor questionable behaviors on the part of coworkers and/or vendors, alerting management when such things arise -- proactively -- less the background checks fail.

And this goes for as well as obviously and .

I know someone who can help, and so does TALA.

03/26/2025

Those in or similar live or die via their employees' words and/or actions, particularly when/where those find their ways onto social media.

Some may also escalate into even violence -- and unfortunately I have those stories to share as well, none that ended well, several that also ended up in lawsuits against their employers.

For those in and tasked with keeping your companies out of both the courtroom and the newsroom, perhaps we should talk about this onsite training event. It is also available for looking for a topical presentation to your professional membership, or as a presentation at your next such event.

We see these worse-case-scenarios find their way into the media and onto social media. You don't want to be one of those stories or viral videos.

I know someone who can help.

Cop Resigns (Again) After Barging In Woman's Home | Lawsuit Results | Final Update 03/26/2025

This was a very interesting case of a police officer who had a *history* of such violence and violations cost his city $350,000 in this particular case. Why bring this up?

This May I'll be speaking at the Texas Municipal Human Resources Association and the following month to another conference co-sponsored by the Texas Municipal League, both focused on and related to and issues. But this story is relevant to *ANY* in HR or Risk Management given it has to do with at-risk employee behavior. The video link is below, for those interested in the deep dive -- and it's a good one.

To employers, regardless of industry/profession -- YES! You ARE responsible for the actions of your people in the field, not just in the office. And YES, prior history will come into play with potential lawsuits filed, particularly if there was a history from prior employers that either (a) you didn't know but should have, or (b) you did know, but hired without addressing the prior issue(s).

For my friends and contacts who are , you will also appreciate this one, particularly if you deal with employment law or business law as, again, this could be ANY employer with similar employees exhibiting such aggressive behavior, let alone those who have a prior history 'of' such behavior.

I know someone who can help.

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