07/18/2021
Listen sis, a lot of the times we wonder why there isnβt happiness in our marriage.
If God canβt trust you with the MAN he sent you then he canβt trust you with him.
Thatβs hard to do when you are sitting there looking at him and all you want to do is just pick up something and throw it.
I understand, but the reality of it is that you are really upset with yourself.
When you have a good man at home and he love your dirty underwear but you are still tripping itβs time to make a change.
I know you make the most money and I know you feel bad about that bc your friend husband has her at home and he pay all the bills.. but what if this is your cross to bear?
What if God is testing you to see if βlove will conquer allβ in your house and when it does 5 years from now you would be a millionaire?
See this is why God canβt show us our future because if he did we wouldnβt do it bc it was the right thing to do we would do it bc we know it will eventually get us to what we want.
God wants us to work for it. In his eyes he wants to know if you never get what you want that you will still love him and do whatβs right.
Stop looking at your husband as the problem and start looking in the mirror saying βHoly Spirit, show me, meβ¦ what is it about me that I can change or fix?β
Click the link in my bio for a FREE 30 minute discovery call and letβs talk about you starting to fix your marriage by fixing you first, which will allow your husband to be him and not be the him you are trying to change him to be.
Let me tell you about a man, a good man, he isnβt going to change nor budge. Why? God didnβt create him as the change agent.. he created you to be that. He is ready to please you but you must first know what you want.