11/17/2022
Dear Friends,
Wednesday 23rd November marks the final game in the current iteration of Costa Mesa Bridge Club. Although it's hard to call it a party we are holding a game and we would like to invite everybody to come and play bridge.
Our online game will continue as long as there is demand and we may run some special games after the demolition in the church, which is currently slated for January, but that is a date which has moved 15 times in the last 2 years.
Margie and I over the course of the past 3 years, have put the continuation of bridge front and foremost. Some people don’t like our management style, some people think we could have done better and maybe we could, but in truth we have done the best we are able. But from March 2020 we have done our absolute best often working 18 hour days and I will lose no sleep over anything we managed to achieve during the pandemic, both for the local bridge and local players.
The Pandemic changed many things, we calculated that we lost 20 people during the last three years, every day I go to work and I miss my friends Mathew and Shirl and Marylin and Jeannie and Fran and Mel and Jean and so many others. I miss the players who can no longer get out of the house, and we see occasionally online. So, in their honor I am running the game on Wednesday 23rd , and I will see their faces as they were one last time in my mind’s eye.
I will miss the days that C players win the open games, it always gives me a kick , I will miss getting asked Bridge questions after the game, but in truth I am not going to miss setting up tables and chairs and being a part time chef, and dishwasher and air conditioning monitor, I will probably have to do more exercise now, you win some you lose some.
I have tried to get everyone a personal remote control for the air conditioning for that day or at least program it into the bridge mates, but that is beyond my technical capabilities.
We truly do wish for the best and hope 515 manages to promote bridge in the Unit, it would be sad to see it become another dormitory unit like so many others have become.
Running a bridge club is not as easy as it looks, running a unit is harder than most members give credit for and now the mantle will pass and I hope that the best can be done for bridge, not just in 515 but all across the league, where clubs are facing similar problems.
One day I will write a book about Directing , the stories and memories I have are treasured even the bad ones on the days when everything went wrong. The book will probably be called idiots guide to solving bridge mate problems and managing the partnership desk.
So on Wednesday the 23rd I am going to set up the room for one last time, and I am inviting everyone, whether we have had cross words or you think we should have or could have done better or you think we have hurt or offended you or you just want to say goodbye as friends, to come to the club and shake our hand and finish on a kind note.
No doubt we will see many of you at tournaments and other local games.
We wish you all the best and bon chance.
Yours Sincerely
Ellis and Margie.