03/16/2024
Women are flexible and resilient; they can adapt to change. While that’s true, it goes in the category, “just because you can, doesn’t mean you should”. I have adjusted to the career choices of my husband multiple times, moving to where his best opportunities were because I was up for the adventure and knew I could “grow where I was planted”. That’s all well and good, but I could have asserted my ambitions and done more with my career. What held me back was not believing in my ambitions enough to defend them. I did not seek out role models or mentors to help me, instead I kept my nose to the grindstone and hoped for the best. What would have helped me was to intentionally visualize where I wanted to be in 5, 10, 20 years. I hope you are intentional about your career and life!