09/11/2026
š” ONE OF THE WORST THINGS SCHOOLS EVER DID WAS TEACH PARENTS THAT TEACHERS HAVE NO POWER.
This is something we need to ļæ¼talk about because somewhere along the way, schools started showing parents that if they pushed hard enough, complained long enough, or went high enough up the chain...
the teacherās decision could be changed.
Teacher gives a consequence?
Call the school.
Teacher says the work is too late?
Call the school.
Teacher gives the grade the student earned?
Call the school.
Teacher says a student needs to move seats?
Question it.
Teacher says there has been an ongoing behavior problem?
āWell, thatās not what he says happens in your class.ā
And what makes it worse is when the teacher stands firm...
and somebody ABOVE the teacher quietly erases it š¤¦š¾āāļø .
So now the consequence gets reduced.
The deadline gets extended.
The grade gets changed.
The student gets sent right back to class.
The parent gets exactly what they wanted.
And now EVERYBODY has learned something.
Just not the lesson we think.
The parent learned that the teacherās ānoā really means āask somebody else.ā
And the STUDENT learned it too.
That is the part schools do not think about enough.
Because that child has to walk back into that teacherās classroom the next morning.
Now tell me...
HOW is that teacher supposed to enforce anything?
Why would a student take the next consequence seriously when they just watched the last one disappear?
Why would they believe the teacher when she says, āThis is the deadline,ā if somebody else will make an exception?
Why would they care when she says, āThis behavior is not acceptable,ā if they already know there is another adult in the building who might overrule her?
You cannot tell teachers:
āBuild strong classroom management.ā
āHold students accountable.ā
āSet clear expectations.ā
āBe consistent.ā
And then make their authority disappear the SECOND somebody gets upset about the expectation.
That makes absolutely NO sense.
And this isnāt about teachers always being right.
They arenāt.
If a teacher makes a bad decision, address it.
If something is unfair, fix it.
But there is a HUGE difference between correcting something that is actually wrong and teaching families that every answer they donāt like deserves an appeal.
Because once parents realize the teacher can be bypassed...
students realize it too.
And once the students know the teacher doesnāt really have the final say in her own classroom?
Good luck telling her she needs better classroom management.
The school already showed everybody who actually has the power.
š¬ At YOUR school, do teachers still have real authority?