Beyond Rubies Coaching

Thank you Ginny Advanceddri Hudson Valley!

Loving a drug addict or an active alcoholic is the hardest thing you will ever do. Watching someone you love, who has fought so hard to beat addiction, throw everything away and sink back into a life that will most likely lead to jail or death, is one of the hardest things you will ever do. All you wanted was to help them back to a clean and sober life but you realize by doing this, as you have before, will now just be enabling them because it will show them that you will always be there to bail them out. You want to grab and shake them and say "What are you doing?!?!" But, at some point you realize that it wouldn't make a difference. So you sit back and watch the tragedy unfold, as if you are watching a movie. Feeling helpless to stop it, feeling like you haven't done enough to help, even though you know only the addict can help themselves. Having to disconnect yourself from them to save yourself from plunging into the abyss with them. It’s one of the hardest things you will ever experience. You love them from afar and keep praying that they will find their way. Battling a drug and/or an alcohol addiction is a beast for the person addicted and the ones who love them. So l am asking you to stand with me in prayer for every family member and friend who has lost or is losing their battle with drugs and alcohol and those who continue to conquer it!
September is National Recovery Month! Put this on your page for one hour if you know someone who has or had an addiction. Many will be hesitant to!!! Some of you won't, but I think I know the ones who will.

My grandmother and her sisters gave so much so that I could have what I have --- It is my responsibility to do that for my grandaughters and nieces!!!!!

Ok all my peeps, I have been hacked again.... please do not accept a friend request from Marie Vega- Byrne St. I have reported to FB but it is still coming up and requesting friends.

Thanks all

It's not to late to register for Saturday's Defensive Driving Class at the Goshen Senior Center~~

Drivers in New York have the unique opportunity to secure an automatic reduction in their insurance rates by completing this state-approved Point and Insurance Reduction Program (PIRP) Class

SAVING LIVES ONE CLASS AT A TIME

Have Daddy will travel....

"Can you remember those moments of pure joy and curiosity that made every adventure unforgettable?

Let's cherish the innocence that still resides within us. "

Practicing emotional intelligence is a powerful tool for managing the fear of conflicts and difficult conversations in both personal and professional realms. equips you with the self-awareness to understand your own emotions during challenging interactions, allowing you to stay composed. It enables you to empathetically perceive the emotions of others, fostering better communication and reducing misunderstandings. Moreover, emotional intelligence provides you with the skills to regulate your emotions, helping you approach conflicts with a calmer and more constructive mindset. Ultimately, empowers you to transform conflicts into opportunities for growth and resolution, rather than sources of fear and stress.

Feeling stress and anxiety? Did you know that "No can be the ultimate game-changer in your life. It can be your passport to freedom and self-respect. "

Much like a toddler, taking messy action to learn something new is a fundamental part of growth. Just as explore the world, we too should approach new challenges with enthusiasm and an acceptance of initial messiness. Toddlers stumble and fall before they walk with confidence, and similarly, we may fumble and make mistakes as we tread into unfamiliar territory. These early missteps are invaluable building blocks for expertise. By adopting this childlike eagerness and embracing the , we can unlock the potential to master new skills, no matter our age or experience level.