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The Dating Advice Girl Erin Tillman, CSE is a Certified Intimacy Coordinator, DEIB Consultant & Dating Empowerment Coach

Proof of life💫
27/03/2026

Proof of life💫

Aww thanks for the shout-out .co .bottura    🖤💫🖤💫🖤💫🖤💫🖤💫🖤💫🖤💫February is Black History Month, and we want to honour Black ...
12/02/2026

Aww thanks for the shout-out .co .bottura

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February is Black History Month, and we want to honour Black sxx educators for their work supporting pleasure and sxxual justice - often while navigating racism, silencing,
and systemic harm.

Here, we’ll introduce just a few of the many incredible Black experts whose work we love and recommend.

Please go follow them and learn from their amazing work too!







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Who else would you add to this list?

Tag your favourite Black sxx experts in the comments!

And share this post so other people can follow these amazing professionals and hear from more black voices!



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Don’t be racist. It’s soooo BORING🙄
09/02/2026

Don’t be racist. It’s soooo BORING🙄

Happy Black History / Black Futures Month🖤💫
06/02/2026

Happy Black History / Black Futures Month🖤💫

Long Beach! I’m back at  NEXT SAT 2/7 12-3pm for my Kinky Dating workshop! With your ticket, you also get a discounted i...
01/02/2026

Long Beach! I’m back at NEXT SAT 2/7 12-3pm for my Kinky Dating workshop! With your ticket, you also get a discounted in-store personal shopping experience at this Long Beach Adam & Eve location💫

It can be difficult to find fellow kinky people in the dating pool who are a ‘Hell Yes’ to your kink style, and for newbies, meeting other kinksters who are in alignment can be especially challenging. Join S*x Educator, Connection Coach & Intimacy Coordinator Erin Tillman, CSE to learn practical tips for finding those who are enthusiastically in alignment.

In this session, will focus on the following areas…

📌Who are you? Identities, Goals & Kinky Roles 

📌Meeting & communicating with other kinksters

📌Discovering your boundaries & Yes/No/Maybes

📌Finding your kinky dating capacity 

📌Dealing with Nervousness & Reframing Rejection

Link in bio⬆️
See you there💕💫

Long Beach Friends! Join me at  on Sat 1/24 12-3pm for my Kink for Newbies workshop! With your ticket, you also get a di...
14/01/2026

Long Beach Friends! Join me at on Sat 1/24 12-3pm for my Kink for Newbies workshop! With your ticket, you also get a discounted in-store personal shopping experience at this Long Beach Adam & Eve location💫

This Intro to Kink class is fun and interactive educational experience delving in the world of kink through the lens of sex-positivity! Join me, Certified S*x Educator and Intimacy Coordinator Erin Tillman, for a curated experience covering kink definitions, kinky categories, finding your kinky persona and meeting other kinksters, social skills, boundaries, power dynamics, consent and more!

Link in bio⬆️

See you there💕

Once upon a time, there used to be a ton of conferences in my profession. It was great for the panels, the networking, a...
12/01/2026

Once upon a time, there used to be a ton of conferences in my profession. It was great for the panels, the networking, and the fostering of community. I had a taste of this while attending expo and seeing colleague/friends this past wknd. This camaraderie means everything as a s*xuality educator💕💫



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Hey Friends! Join me Sat 1/31 for my Intro to Kink workshop  DTLA🎉This workshop is fun and interactive and educational e...
09/01/2026

Hey Friends! Join me Sat 1/31 for my Intro to Kink workshop DTLA🎉

This workshop is fun and interactive and educational experience delving in the world of kink through the lens of sex-positivity! Join me, Certified S*x Educator and Intimacy Coordinator Erin Tillman for a curated experience covering kink definitions, kinky categories, finding your kinky persona and meeting other kinksters, social skills, boundaries, power dynamics, consent and more💫

Bring your questions and learn how to navigate the kink scene🪢

Link in profile! Use code ‘ERINT’ for $15 off a standard ticket🤑

See you there💕

Proud of us🎉💫
05/12/2025

Proud of us🎉💫

‘Twas super fun hanging out at Firestation 70 for Thanksgiving/Indigenous Peoples’ Day. I even got to ride on the engine...
29/11/2025

‘Twas super fun hanging out at Firestation 70 for Thanksgiving/Indigenous Peoples’ Day. I even got to ride on the engine with some of my fave LAFD people🚒💫

Sharing some food bank resources. Apologies for not having sources for each of these, but hoping that these will help an...
03/11/2025

Sharing some food bank resources. Apologies for not having sources for each of these, but hoping that these will help anyone who isn’t sure where to begin their search🙏🏽💕



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