Reconcile & Reclaim Collaborations, LLC

04/15/2026

"Stand for something or fall for anything"

- ".... [If] anybody owe you bread, do not accept the crumbs...

- ... bet on yourself, if you gon' roll the dice on anything...

- ... Don't go blowin' bags on a bag, if you can't put a bag in it...

- ... And never [mess] with [people] you never see with [their] children...

- ...[Get] a few deeds and some LLCs so you ain't cooked if a [partner] leaves...

- ... Sweet life ain't always sweet, [a woman] gotta stay on her Q's and P's..."

These are some of Kash Doll's Kommandments, what are yours? Drop in with me on 4/20 and let's clarify our standards.

Music Speaks Theology is a virtual conversation about the God talk happening in "unlikely" spaces, in this case, non-church music. This event centers the lived experiences of Black women, but is open to all folx and allies.

Content warning: The featured song, "Kash Kommandments" by Kash Doll contains explicit racial, gendered, and sexual language, oh and cuss words. If you tend to clutch your pearls easily, maybe sit this one out😊 lol.

Registration link is in the comments.

03/17/2026

Iiiiiit's Baack!

Remix: Music Speaks Theology.

Join us on April 20th @ 7:00pm EST to discuss the necessity and particulars of commandments- both in Exodus 20 and those named by Kash Doll in "Kash Kommandments". Should be a fun and lifted time! 😊

Registration is required and available via the website, reconcileandreclaim.com

03/11/2026

Attention allayall! I am looking for Black women and people assigned female at birth (AFAB) to participate in my doctoral study (DMin in Leadership for Social Transformation). See the flyer below for more information. If you're interested in participating in the study, click the link in the comments.

10/20/2025

"Encouraging each other as you see the day approaching..."

Center your week on this *spiritual practice* from our Minister in Residence Constance Dunlap: MAKE PEOPLE FEEL BIGGER 💓💞💓

As folks battle loneliness, grapple with fascism, and struggle to get by, sometimes the best thing we can do is offer radical hope & love in action.

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"Make people feel bigger.
Make people feel seen.
Make people feel safe.
Make people feel cared for.
Make people feel salvageable.
Make people feel like a different future is possible.

Because we all need that grace.
And we can all be contributors to that grace."

READ MORE from Minister Constance (Reconcile & Reclaim Collaborations, LLC) 📝✍🏾 https://www.faithchoiceohio.org/blog/make-people-feel-bigger

09/16/2025

Hi friends!

I am thinking of hosting a series of virtual story sharing/connection group meet ups around caring for elderly parents and parents actively transitioning into the next phase of existence.

Would any of yall be interested in dropping in?

I'm biased toward it being a group centering the experiences of Black and brown women, but it certainly could be open to all.

Thoughts?

09/16/2025

I am excited and honored to be participating in the upcoming Equity in Bloom Conference this weekend in Detroit, MI. http://www.equityinbloomsummit.com/

I am most stoked to facilitate a conversation with Dr. Toni Bond, one of the 12 women to coin the term and concretize the movement for Reproductive Justice.

I will also be leading a session on the engagement of sexuality as a means of bringing about justice and perpetuation of God's deliverance. Yes, I'll be talking about ho's and yall should know by now that i looooove me some ho's LOL. Spoiler alert: Turns out so does God 😃

There's still time to register if you are in the area. Come plot with us!

At Equity in Bloom, we gather thought leaders, activists, healthcare professionals, and community advocates to explore and advance the conversation around reproductive justice. This summit is dedicated to creating a more equitable and inclusive world where everyone has access to the resources, suppo...

06/16/2024

So, its been a while since I've paid attention to Father's Day sermons, but im curious today. Do we always conflate fatherhood to manhood? Are they the same? Is fatherhood the epitome of manhood/masculinity? Can someone be a father and a horrible man?

Come in here and talk to me lol. 🙂

02/20/2024

Today's vibe:

"Everywhere you go there is trouble.
Everywhere you go there is strife.
Everywhere you go there is something that worries you, but remember
Our God is standing by." 🙌🏾



https://youtu.be/xzD7RaPSqIc?si=0_nxgfgtrdGnAAYy

Monique Dunlap

Soloist Lynette Hawkins Stephans. Orignally recorded by Jessy DixonLyricsLead: Everywhere You Go There Is TroubleChoir: There Is TroubleLead: Everywhere You ...

02/18/2024

This year for lent I gave up alcohol. I fully intend to enjoy the fruit of the vine again tho. Yet, I was reminded just now that Lent is a season of repentance, of shedding, self-discipline and offering to God that which need no longer bind you

So in that spirit, I have decided to give up trying to force friendships and relationships when the evidence is present in their *actions* that they do not want it or value it sufficiently.

Ps. Healthy relationships are a part of spiritual maturity and sexuality. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk 😁