08/22/2026
We talk a lot about wanting our girls to be confident. But confidence doesn’t really come first. It comes from doing the things that feel hard, especially when they aren’t totally sure they can do them yet.
Trying something new, struggling a little, failing and trying again, getting stronger, coming back after an injury, or speaking up when something doesn’t feel right. All of those experiences are giving them evidence that says, “I can handle hard things.”
As a mom, coach, and PT, I don’t think our job is to make everything easier for our girls. It’s to give them the tools, support, and opportunities to figure things out and realize just how capable they are.
Because the hard things are going to look different as they get older. And I want them to already have that voice in their head that says, “I can figure this out. I can get back up. I can do hard things.”
That’s the confidence I want us to help them build.