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Our past, with all its disappointments and traumas, all we "learned" and experienced, can keep us trapped.

Trapped in outdated ways of thinking and reacting.
The key is to know what to keep and what to discard.
Want to talk this through?

We need to FEEL our feelings (denial and suppression isn’t healthy) and LISTEN to what they have to tell us about what’s going on with us.
BUT then we have to CHOOSE our response.
What do you think?

Makes sense, doesn't it? Easier said than done with all the traumas we've all endured over the years.

But it's the only way we can get to a truly better place.

We often look at the results we're getting in our lives...the place where we are now...and aren't really clear (or accurate) on how we got here.

If I can be honest with you, the best place to find out how you got where you are is to understand what you believe and why.

Because our beliefs drive us. They get us doing what we do, reacting the way we react. Sometimes those deep down beliefs we formed in childhood cause us to drive our lives into a ditch!

We need a constant mental tune up!! But we usually need help understanding ourselves. Reach out if you want to talk things through.

Which one do you want/need more of?

Never doubt that.
Your skills.
Your personality.
Your experiences.
Your family and friends.
All you've learned goes into the amazingly powerful person you were born to be.
Ready for the next version of You? Reach out and let's begin.

Sure we need to grow, transform some attitudes and behaviors.

But criticizing yourself constantly just doesn't work. It actually keeps you stuck, in my experience.

So put those hyper-critical thoughts where they belong and refocus on the fabulous person you were born to be.
And what it will take to become that person, because the world needs you to be that person!

Say it with me: “I’m working on becoming my Best Self”.

Our beliefs --> lead to our Behaviors --> which lead to our Habits --> which lead to the LIFE we create!

I teach this and much more to people in my free mindset coaching program. It may feel embarrassing to discover the connection, but it ends up being empowering, because they now know where to start to change their lives.

Agree? Disagree? Let me know if you want to explore this.

We ALL get trapped by the past. Stuck in old ways of thinking and feeling and strategies for living that hold us back and drag us down.

To get to a new level, we have to put the past where it belongs...in the past. And be free to rise to our fullest, highest potential.

BUT…we can't BE free of our past unless we BREAK free.
I have fought my way through some major challenges. And I've learned some ways to do it, so reach out if you're trying to put the past where it belongs...in the past.

Who is the next level version of yourself? What do they do? What action are they taking? I'd love to know!

As you focus on having a great new year, I want you to know that everything that
your parent(s) and family,
your teachers and coaches,
your church (if you had one) and friends
-- all the people who poured into you -- it was all worth it.

Because you are now the person you are.
They got a return on their investment.

It's up to you and I, now, to INCREASE that rate of return by improving our character, our knowledge, and our skills.

Why? Because...

We'll be able to accomplish more in less time.
We'll build BETTER relationships.
Increase our impact in the world.
Earn more income. Get more promotions.
Increase our happiness and fulfillment.
Just get better and better results in every area of our lives.

You ready to uplevel? Drop a "YES" in the comments and let's talk. I don't charge money for what I do for people, but I do ask that you commit to becoming the Best Version of yourself!

Our beliefs affect us FAR more than we realize.
Beliefs about OURSELVES.
Beliefs about others.
Beliefs about how to be successful in life.
Beliefs about how to handle all kinds of situation.
If life isn't what you want it to be, look first at what you believe deep down.
Because those beliefs eventually determine the life you end up with.

What do you think?