06/29/2023
I just got this message on Facebook from Jim Rupert. He is the husband of "Momma" Faith Rupert.
Dear friends... Our beloved Mom, teacher and friend, Faith Rupert, lived a life of extraordinary compassion that ended peacefully Monday night. Surrounded by loved ones in her last days, she laughed at jokes, troubled not a whit by this transition we call death. Her aching desire was that family, friends and former students know how much she loves them, and how much joy she found in her mission of teaching and caring for others.
This "daughter of Appalachia" grew up in the coal mining towns of Depression-era West Virginia, taught in childhood that her "good-ness" as a girl and woman would depend on her obedience to male authority. She decided otherwise.
Mom chose a partner, the Rev. James Rupert, who valued her as an equal. Amid America's civil rights movement this young couple worked in small towns and (Methodist) churches of New Jersey for a more inclusive, compassionate nation. When the church hierarchy found their activism troublesome, they shifted to teaching.
Mom founded high school theater programs in southern New Jersey's Washington Township and in Gilford, New Hampshire. Her days often began at 5am and ended late at night, after play rehearsals. In her hands, the works of Shakespeare, Wilder, Ibsen and others became classrooms for thousands of young minds -- and hospitals for often troubled young hearts. "If you don't think what she does is a ministry," Dad said, "You don't understand what ministry is."
Mom built -- through her teaching, her church work and the simple power of her magnetic friendship -- what we might call a "community of Faith." Her children are SO grateful for the kindness of so many from this far-flung congregation. We will gather on August 12 in New Hampshire at the Gilford Community Church to celebrate the life of this courageous, strong woman, and to share our grief, joy and love.