08/10/2026
I was watching Louis Theroux’s documentary Extreme Alcohol Addicts recently, and one story hit me right in the chest.
There’s a guy named Joe in the video. Smart, well-spoken, capable—a guy who had a great career ahead of him. But the disease took over, and suddenly he was walking out of hospital wards just to go sit in a park with a bottle of vodka, completely consumed by addiction.
When I look at Joe in that footage, I’m looking in a mirror.
I turned 45 years old in rehab.
I turned 46 years old in rehab.
Now, at 50, I look back on that dark, chaotic chapter of my life and I honestly don't recognize the man I was back then. It feels like a completely different lifetime.
When people watch documentaries like that, it’s easy to look at the screen and think, "Wow, those are extreme cases."
Through my work at Chicago Sober Coaching, I see the truth every day: those cases aren't as extreme as you think. Countless people you pass on the street—or sit next to at work—are heading down that exact same path right now. So many executives, parents, and community leaders fall just as far, trapped in the quiet lie that "it's under control" or "it could never be me."
It can be you. But recovery can be you, too.
If you’re struggling, or if someone you love is sliding down that hill, please hear me: you don't have to lose everything to decide you've had enough.
Change is real. Freedom is real. If I can go from turning 45 in a treatment center to living a whole, sober life at 50, there is hope for anyone.
Reach out. You don't have to walk it alone.
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